The Most Shocking Detail From Nicole Kidman’s Divorce Document

The Most Shocking Detail From Nicole Kidman’s Divorce Document

from MMA Mia. Welcome to The Spill, your daily pop culture fix. I’m Laura Broadnick. And I’m M Bernham. And coming up on the show today, Nicole Kimman has officially filed for divorce from Keith Urban. And the entire legal document for their divorce unfortunately has been made public. I have combed through it and we’re going to talk about the most shocking reveals, but also paint more of a picture where Nicole’s at. Like obviously we’re well, we’re team both of them, but you know, we’re going to get to the truth of that. Plus an equally important story. Robert Irwin is staging a very sexy takeover of America right now. He’s in the trenches. He’s doing the work. M’s going to recap that. If you have any small children, she’s going to recap Robert Irwin’s sexiness. Um, if you have any small children around, animals, anyone who’s a bit fragile, maybe just get them out of the room for that bit and protect them. But first, but first, I was scrolling on my Tik Tok feed and I came across this clip from Amy Polar’s um podcast, Good Hang. Yeah. I didn’t realize how big of a fan I was of this podcast until I realized it’s like an integral part to my Saturday morning. It’s the It’s the one podcast I listen to when I wake up and do all my morning stuff on a Saturday. I saw guy that I have all my favorite pods and it’s so hard to find pods that you love and that you want to listen to. I’m like, my ears are a sacred space. I don’t let just anyone in there. And I have like like five pods that I listen to every week. And I have a specific time. Like this one is for my Saturday morning walk and getting a coffee. This one is for like a Sunday night when I’m having a wine on my balcony. This one’s for like when I go and do an exercise, like a long walk or something. Oh my god. We should like we should release our listening habits. Oh, I know. That’s also so personal. I don’t know. No, but I think people would want to know. I want I mean I know yours. Oh, do you? Yeah, I do. We’ve had it. I wish about it after a few wines. Yeah, I know. We always do. I know. I wish I was more mysterious, but I’m just an open book. Okay, so your Saturday, you spend Saturday morning with Amy Polar. I do. And it’s like one of those podcasts. So, she’s an interviewer and she interviews a lot of people that she’s also friends with. Yeah. I love that. So, it’s a lot of people in her life. And I It’s one of those um podcasts where I feel like with interviewing podcasts, you pick and choose which episodes you want to listen to. and she’s such a good interviewer and she’s so like warm and welcoming that no matter who she’s interviewing I just listen even if I don’t know them or Yeah. And she’s one of the few people I think like big huge celebrities, movie stars, all that sort of stuff who I think should be doing a podcast because now that every single movie star who used to have the most envial job in the world, like it was so hard to be a, you know, a full-time actor and be in these movies and the fact that they’re all kind of pushing that aside now to do a podcast, which is our daily job. Yeah. Get out. Get out. We We’re here. You have your own thing. You We have a voice for podcasting. Yeah. We didn’t have a choice. We had to go here. We had no other skills. You guys do. Yeah. They’re like camera. No, these girls below belong on audio only. But I can kind of see Amy Polar cuz she as she said, she loves a good hang. She loves a chat and so it it kind of feels like the right space for her. Yes. And because I am so involved in watching those and I watch it on my TV as well. Yeah. It’s like a cinematic experience for me. Um because I watch it on my TV, I get fed a lot of the socials as well. And um as pre-promo for her episode with Regina Hall, who is one of my favorite comedic actresses of all time, um I saw this little clip and I want to play it for you. 86% of the most successful men are married. They need that grounding. They need that home base. And women don’t. No. No. Cuz they find it in friendships. If you ask men who their best friend is, most of them say their wives, right? And if you ask a woman, she’s really got her friends. She like Lisa. You know, I love that. She’s like, you ask a woman, she’s like, “Do I have real friends?” Like, I have a lot of friends. Yeah. A lot of them are my husband. The correct answer. Also, that like gap you like hear between Regina Hall saying that stat and then it’s like silence. It’s if you watch the interview, it’s Amy Pol looking at down the barrel of the camera as I’m like obviously. Yeah. Yeah. But it’s like I love this clip so much and it was one of those clips I came on my TikTok feed that I just watched on repeat because I was so bloody funny. But also because it’s one of those celebrity moments that’s so realistic to the everyday person. And in my head I always forget that celebrities are also part of these big stats that we see. Yes. Because it feels that they’re so so separate. And also through that lens of Hollywood, I always assumed it was the opposite. Oh, really? Yeah. And I think this comes off the back of watching like big celebrity male stars in Hollywood and how they’re always perpetually single. Like in my head I’m like Brad Pitt, like how everyone said that after the divorce, Angelina got the kids and he got Hollywood. Brad Pitt, Tom Cruz, like Bradley Cooper, like all of these like men. Leonardo DiCaprio. Yeah. who the ultimate single girl and I’m like we see them dating women half their age but we see them in relationships and stuff but they’re always perpetually single in our heads even if they’re in like Leonardo DiCaprio now has been in a relationship with Victoria Seretti for quite a few years and she’s over 25 she’s like holding her breath every year yeah she turned 25 a little while ago she’s holding her breath get with her when she was 25 no no god no no everyone just thought because he usually breaks up with women when they turn 25 that on her 25th birthday she’ be seen and like lugging a suitcase away from the super yacht they’ve been sharing. But she’s still there. Yeah, I’m way too old for him. Maybe he’s like waiting to 20 now that he’s 50. He’s like, I’ll go 26 like on hingy change of the age. He’s like, time to grow up. He goes to 26. He’s like 26 to 27. Yeah. And he’s like, “Wow, the personal growth is off the charts.” But it when I watched this clip, I was like, “Oh, I could just immediately think of all of these celebrity men who are like perpetually single.” And I think it’s also because as those men are getting older and we know that Hollywood favors older men that they are so reliant on those parasocial relationships that they have with their audience. And there is something about feeling more okay watching and kind of I guess quote unquote thirsting after man when you know he’s single. Yeah. And yet all my favorite actors in Hollywood are women and it’s regardless of her relationship status. Yeah. It doesn’t make us like or dislike a woman anymore. Yeah. I know. And I just found that so interesting, but what do you think of that stat? Cuz I’m really interested to know like I know you watch Good Hang and you’re a fan of Regina Hall, but when celebrities are talking about like these kind of like lifestyly moments, do you feel like that they have access to be able to talk about those things? And when you say access, do you mean do they have lived experience to talk about those things? Like are they allowed? Well, I mean, obviously, like it’s like anything a celebrity talks about is like everyone’s looking for like vulnerability and honestly because you want to relate to a celeb. And when I say like we don’t like women more or less when they’re single, sometimes if they are like really long-term single, I do find a little bit of comfort in that cuz I’m like this is one of the most beautiful women in the world. She’s so successful. Everyone loves her and she’s still still single. You and I have talked about this before one of our many drunken airport chats. It’s like it makes you feel a little bit better when you’ve got like other people who are in the same situation. But at the same time, everything’s like a little bit tinged with like if you wanted to, you could access so many people success, right? Like I always think about that with Mindy Kaling, like always single and yet she’s still was able to have kids, but also it’s through the lens of like she’s single, but it’s almost feels like like society allows her to be single because she’s so so successful. This is what I really find as a single woman is that you’ve always got to have these extra achievements to kind of blur the singleness away. So, you’ve always got to have these big career highlights. You have to be the best of the best at your job. You have to be like the funniest person in your family. You always have to be off having this big adventure. Yeah. You have to be the funniest, the most dynamic. You have to um have like a beautiful home. You have to be successful at work and always kind of living this big adventurous life. And sometimes I’m like, I’m just tired. But Mindy, sometimes I just want to be bad at my job. Sometimes I want to be single and also a failure at the rest of my life. Just let let a girl live. Maybe I’m just going to underachieve across the board and that’s okay. What if we just like start being really bad? Yeah, let’s do it right now. While uh the pot ends like our producer Georgie’s in this Georgie, we’re going to be really bad at the film. We just both gave up on our careers in this moment. If you guys want to help us, stop listening. Yeah. Don’t don’t watch us on YouTube. Don’t leave an review on Apple or Spotify. Don’t follow us on social. That’s for sure. In fact, unfollow. Just want to be mediocre. Well, I know that’s the thing. No one really like there’s not a lot of pity for someone like a Mindy Kaling or even like recently like Shelley Throne or anyone like that because they have these big beautiful homes. Yes. They were able to have kids as single women because they have the funds which is what stops a lot of it’s not a man that stops a lot of women not having children. It’s the finance of it and the money. So when you have all that and I feel like we don’t see it, but I wonder if like in their inner circles like amongst Mindy Kaling’s friends who are also on her same level of success who also have like families and are like dating and are having boyfriends and are like getting married and getting divorced and they’re married again if they see that. Yeah, maybe. It’s interesting too cuz Amy Paul has been single for a really long time as well and she’s had people come on the show and try and set her up with billionaires. that is my favorite episode. And she’s like, I don’t want that. I don’t want a man around me. And I was like, fair, cool, fair. Because again, one of the most loved women in the world. And she was just like, I don’t need that. A, it’s kind of interesting. I do think it’s like we’re collecting these when we first got Emma Watson. Now we have Amy Polar. Yeah. The Single Girls Club. Single Club. The famous beautiful rich single girls club. And we’re in it as well. Yeah. I mean, we Well, now that we’ve got our jobs, we’re not going to be in it. But yeah, that’s an interesting thing of looking through that comment through the lens of Hollywood because you have these kind of yeah really famous men who are very like famously single and even Leonardo DiCaprio who’s been in a relationship for years. We still think of him as a single man just cuz that’s the way he presents. But then you also have these actors who these really famous actors who have made their wives their entire personality. George Clooney. Oh yeah. Robert Downey Jr. credits his entire success to his wife Susan which is kind of a fair thing. Damon to an extent. Like you have Yeah. Like he’s like they’re all like both his wife and JLo. Yeah. Matt Damon’s not married to JLo. No, but he had to comfort her. Oh, that’s so true. I was like, wait, is that some gossip? Ben Affleck like running around with these women in the Matt Damon going, “Men, he’s having to now I have to look after her. He’s having to go and comfort all the ex-girlfriends. All the ex-girlfriends are coming up to Matt going.” Yeah. Yeah. So, we do I think we do see this thing of really famous men even like Chris Hemsworth. There’s so many who are just like they’re like these really famous wife guys like my wife my wife my wife because it kind of deflects from a lot of things and it also kind of and it also gives them that concept like look I’m a good guy cuz I’m married. It like inserts a personality for them that they might not have had before and you know what it’s working that’s fine. They’re the kind of men that say that’s my best friend and their wife’s like you’re not my best friend. It’s like ew. Yeah. You just know Elsa Bataki is like I have a best friend. It’s not and it’s not you Chris Endworth. Okay, in case you missed it, Robert Owen, I did not miss it. I’ll tell you that much. He’s He’s still on Dancing with the Stars. Look, this is the first time in Dancing with the Stars history that I’ve seen so much of this show. Oh, you’re invested now that you without my consent. Like, it’s just all over my face. Well, that’s the thing about Dancing with the Stars. It’s been going for so long, well before like any of these social platforms are a thing. But their team has adapted so well to social that they just make every season go viral in a way that other reality shows haven’t been able to like haven’t been able to achieve. Yeah. It’s so wild because there are a lot of contestants on Dancing with the Stars, but in my head there’s only two. Oh. Oh. Who’s the other one? Robin Owen and Dylan Efron. Oh, of course you’re going to say Alex Earl. I thought she’d be in your wheelhouse. Oh, is she in it? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh my god. You say you’re you’re such a fake fan. I had no objection. and and our fave gal, Ariia Baldwin. Oh, yes. Dancing her Spanish dances. Ari’s like, “Salsa, I’ve got this.” Yeah. She’s like, “I grew up dancing this in Massachusetts where I lived when I never lived in Spain.” Our fave girl. I love her so much. Anyway, the only people I’ve seen is Robert Irwin and Dylan Efron. I think Robert Irwin was the fan favorite from the first episode because that was like the very first episode is where you see like how committed each celebrity is to the actual program, right? And he was very committed. As committed as he is, as I’m going to say, animals. Yeah. It’s like dancing animals, nothing else. Yeah. Nothing else. That’s all he has. So, this second routine that’s been going absolutely viral, it’s because it’s so sexy. Have you watched it? Yeah. I felt dirty watching it. I felt like it’s not something I should be watching with my eyes even though it was on public broadcast television. And that moment where the lights go up and the camera’s on his face and he’s looking with such intense smoldering. He’s smoldering into the camera with the intensity that like an old school movie star could never achieve. I like melted to the floor. Not in a sexy way. I’m just like I don’t know what to look. I know what to do with my hands. You did what I did when I watched Magic Mike. Yeah. Yeah, I did. When we watched Magic Mike Em and I at the cinema, she like just fell onto the floor in a puddle. That was me in my apartment watching Robert Owen dancing. Okay. So, it starts off where they’re on this platform and she’s perched on his shoulder like a sexy parrot. Yeah. And that’s when he we get the zoom in on his face and he’s smoldering and it’s quite a long smolder. It’s so long. I didn’t think he expected the camera to be there for that long. He’s so Yeah, he’s in his head. He’s probably like 1, two, three. It’s not moving. Okay, then he she’s off the shoulder. He jumps off the platform. She takes the stairs. Quite a safe safe room. Safety first. They’re now on the DF. They’re now on the dance floor. Okay. And they start doing what I’m assuming is the salsa. I should also point out that her name is Whitney Carlson and she’s a professional dancer. Yeah, of course. She’s a professional dancer. That’s a whole set of dancers. You couldn’t tell. How did you know it was the salsa? Do you know? You just guessed. That’s the one dance movie. You know, I researched cuz I actually Sorry to question you. No, I know what salsa looks like. I don’t think what I witnessed was the salsa that I had in my head because I know if that was the kind of salsa I tried to do, it would send my parents into a coma. Okay. Like, you can’t be doing that in front of your parents. He has a bit of a solo. Yes. And the solo includes ripping off his shirt and moving his hips sensually. This was the intensity of this again. And the shirt comes off and he just looks into the camera like, “Yeah, it’s like I did it.” It’s like that movement where you’re like um hula hooping but you don’t know the hula hoop’s on the ground. Like Robert, it’s fallen. Stop. It’s fallen. Rob, it’s fallen. Pick it up. I know. Again, I had to look away. I had to keep like watching this, putting my phone down, walking away, coming back to watch it. It’s like a 30-second clip. It took me like an hour to watch it. It’s a lot. Okay. Then they start doing these dance moves separately. Yeah. Which I think looks professional but also awkward. Like I think he’s more of a partner dancer than a little Well, yeah. He can’t dance is the whole point of the show. No. No. So, I think they should have like if I was a judge, I’d be like, I’m taking points off that because I felt uncomfortable. He then flips her in the air using his neck. What did you say that? Yeah, but I didn’t think it was a neck. I mean, I did watch it. He flipped her around with his neck. Okay. Can I just say that quite dangerous? Men on Dancing with the Stars have an unfair advantage because often they can kind of I know they have to lift and stuff, but they can just kind of stand there while their partner while the female dancer like dances around them and she’s the one who had to propel her body over his neck. I mean, obviously he does some of the heavy lifting. Well, I think he also has a thick neck from practicing of like wrestling crocodiles. Sure. So, I think she’s like, “Let’s put that to use. Let’s I’m going to just use your neck as a pole.” Yeah, it’s been like JLo hustlers and she just going around his neck. Okay, the dance ends. He winks at the camera and seemingly growls. But I think that I could be starting a rumor. There’s no It’s not audible. You just felt it. He winks. He felt it deep inside. He winks and he goes, “Oh my god.” Like a pirate. I wish she hadn’t done that. Which is a call back to the start when she was a parrot on her shoulder. Oh. So it’s story. story of the Caribbean 8. How many of them are there? 10, 15. It’s his audition tape for the new Captain Jack Sparrow. Oh my god. We’re judging him and he’s just out here trying to tell a story about a lonely pirate who found finds a pretty girl and they dance together. Yeah. A lot of animal metaphors in there. I must have blacked out if he growled cuz I don’t remember that bit. I think you probably when it ended I can see you just immediately turning it off. I threw my phone into a fire. Just let it go. Yeah. But it was like sexy. Like I was quite into it. Were you? But also, you I was I was there in the room the moment you discovered you were a bit in love with Robert Owen because I was there in the room when I discovered I was like, I have no idea. It was mid pod. Yeah. And it was like a year ago. It was over a year ago. We’re just chatting and all of a sudden you just got really quiet and you were talking about all the things you liked about him and all of a sudden you got really quiet and looked down. It was like the moment of romcom where you’re just like, “I am in love with Bob, my best friend.” And then you run to the airport to stop getting it. Yeah. I was like running to run to the zoo. Yeah. Run to Australia zoo. Rob, it’s me. You tried to climb over the gate into the crocodile enclosure. Someone else tries to get me. I was like, what’s wrong? You’re like, no, I’m here for Robert Irwin. That was a Yeah, I had to stop the way, Bendy. I’m not here for you. Don’t want to talk to you. Um, I remember I had to stop the pot and be like, “Are you in love with Robert Irwin? You were so flustered. You forgot we were on camera.” You whispered it cuz I think you were so concerned. I’m like, “Are we saying it out loud? Was that out loud? Will it not come true?” But also this is working his whole kind of Dancing with the Stars kind of after he did that whole like viral underwear campaign. Yeah. The bond with the snake. Yes. Yes. And it was a metaphor. And that’s all we’re saying. A visual metaphor. Yeah. Exactly. It was again telling a story. And then he did it like when he was in when he was um introduced as a contestant of Dancing with the Stars, he ran shirtless to the stage. Yeah. It’s this whole No, no. He’s trying to be like I’m not that little kid who you guys saw like growing up with walabbees and kangaroo now. He’s like I’m a sexual man. It’s like when Disney stars like mostly female Disney stars always like so in infantilized and then all of a sudden they’ll like wear like assless chaps on stage and be like I’m a woman now. Is he’s doing that which is so funny because Steve wasn’t that. Yeah. But again, he’s trying to forge his own path and he’s trying to like put himself out there as a bit of like a suave dator due to that interview he did with People magazine. And they asked him if he’d ever use like wildlife to secretly impress a date. Probably thinking he was going to be like, “Oh, no.” And he’s like, “Yeah.” Like He Ledger’s niece. Well, yeah. No, they’re not dating now, are they? No. No. They broke up. They did that statement. He didn’t name names, but maybe it was maybe it was her. But I like I’ve been thinking about her a lot. Have you? Yeah. Cuz now she’s like, “Oh, do you think this is like revenge from him?” No. I think he’s too young to be thinking like that. I think it’s more when you have like your high school boyfriend and you think in your head it’s the first love. It’s the first love of your life. They were on the carpet with us at Tom Cruz’s. No, I remember like they were so cute. No, I sat next to them in so many different events and they were in love and now she’s seeing him do all of this. Well, maybe he’s trying to win her back. Maybe that little growl and wink was for her. Not for us. It wasn’t for you, that’s for sure. But I don’t know if she was the girl in this car, but he was telling the story of like he was driving a date home and like what’s he been on the drive for like a year? So I feel like it’s a recent story. He was on his piece. Yeah. He says she’s driving a date home and he saw a snake by the side of the road and in his head he was like, “Oh, thank God.” Like this is going to make me look so good. So he like swerves the car over, gets out of He goes off road to kill the snake. Yeah. No, he’s not going to kill it. He’s a conservationist. Oh, what’s he going to do with the snake? Move it? Yeah, he moved it. The snake’s already on the side of the road. He moved it. I think the snake’s like, “Rob, I know. I think he’s That’s why I’m on the side. The snake’s like, “I’m fine. Put me down.” The snake’s like, “I saw the road, hence why I’m on the side.” And you still get out and embarrass me in front of this woman. He’s trying to make himself sound brave in this story. You’ve ruined it. So, he goes off the side of the road. Maybe the snake was in the middle of the road. Okay. Okay. Changes the story, doesn’t it? That does change the story. And he walked over, scoops the snake up, and I think he either put it somewhere safe or he took it with him, put it on her. And in and in his head, he was like, “Thank you, snake. Thank you, snake. Thank you, snake, because it made me look so brave. And so he used that snake for personal gain. Oh, how would I have gotten the egg? Would that make you If you were in a car with Robert and he pulled over and manhandled a snake out of the way and like saved its life, would that make you fall more in love with him? It depends. Okay. I honestly think it depends on the situation of the snake. Yeah. If you’re looking at it, even if the snake’s in the road, if it looks like it’s crossing, I’d be like, “Okay, we’ll just stop it. Wait for it to cross.” I feel like Robert Irwin knows what I would trust his thoughts on whether a snake’s in danger over our thoughts. No offense to you. If he says the snake’s in danger, I’m going to believe him. Although, he did say he was kind of doing it to impress her. So, I don’t think the snake was in danger. I think the snake looked like I think the snake was probably sleeping on the side of the road and Robin Hen without consulting me in the passenger seat pulls over, gets out, headlight’s still on. So, I’m watching this. It’s like a cinematic experience. His shirt off. He rips his shirt off the snake safety. So the snake can feel his heartbeat the snake up and then like holds it up like Simba in the Lion King in the Lion King. And then he like puts it literally back down where he picked it up from. Yeah. And then gets back in the car and he was like, “Thank God I did that.” And I was like, “Thank God.” Yeah. Like you just interrupted that snake’s night and you didn’t ask any consent about picking up. You interrupted that snake’s night and now you’ve interrupted my hair. And he did say he knew what kind of snake it was. Obviously he knew it was nonvenenomous. So he picked it up, put it down, got it, and went not Venomous. The stakes were already low. Yeah. And then drove off on the highway, but he could only go up to 90 cuz he’s on his peas. Yeah. So that’s what he’s out in the world trying to do now. He’s telling stories about his heroic encounters with snakes. He’s pulling his shirt off. He’s growling. I like how he’s like becoming very funny. Yeah. Like I love seeing a bit of personality from a young man. Yeah. You are in love with him. I don’t know. That’s the next story. I’m a bit off. Yeah, fine. Dylan Efron’s still there. Okay. Well, actually, I don’t know. Did you see his first dance? No, I’m not the Dancing Stars fan that you are. No, Dylan. Okay, maybe I should do a recap of Dylan Efron’s dance. Maybe, maybe another day. It includes twerking in the judges faces. Oh, okay. Well, these boys, they’re just trying to get a bit of fame. So, anyway, stay tuned for Robert Owen’s takeover stand take over America through his sexy. The whole Owen family is there supporting him. They’re all there. Yeah. What about the animals? Who’s looking after the animals? Australia zoo is just wide open. It’s like Bendy’s American husband by himself. He just I don’t know what to do. It cuts to Australia zoo and all the animals like partying and drinking and they’ve got like cigarettes hanging out of their mouth. They do a Madagascar. They all just leave. Yeah. So, since the news broke of Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s separation on Tuesday that we covered in that episode of the spill and at the time of recording it, it was kind of confirmed through sources, but Nicole and Keith hadn’t said anything, and there was no documentation to prove it. So, I think a few people out there were holding out hope that it was just a vicious lie and scandal, but people reported on it, which means which was how we knew it was kind of true. But now, which whose camp do you think the um leak came through? It’s hard to say because at the time, well, TMZ, here’s the thing. TMZ was the first to um break the news and they put it out there and then every other publication who has ties to the Keith Urban and Nicole Kimman camps went and checked it with their own sources. And at the time I was like, it’s interesting how TMZ would have found that because they are not in the camps of that many celebrities, like lower tier celebrities who call them to like, you know, do paparazzi shots and stuff at the airport. Yeah, exactly. But Nicole Kimman’s not calling up TMZ being like, “Hey, I’ve got a hot scoop for you.” Um, and nothing had been filed to our knowledge at the time. And that’s usually how TMZ finds things because they have so many people at hospitals, courouses, all these different places. But now the divorce papers have been filed by Nicole Kimman. So, I don’t know if there was somehow TMZ got a tip off for someone that from like a lawyer’s office or something that was going to happen because Nicole Kimman officially filed for divorce from Keith Urban on September 30. So after all the news broke and now all of the information from those court documents because it’s been cited by so many people have been made public. And what’s kind of interesting is just how I guess like any separation that involves children even though their their daughters are 17 and 14. So older children but you still have to have a custody arrangement especially for a 14-year-old is how indepth their arrangement is and how they’ve already sorted all their assets and everything. Yeah. It didn’t seem very conflicty when I um looked at the divorce documents, but I also wanted to know, is it weird that they that that was released before they actually put out a statement? Well, they haven’t put out a statement yet. So, we think they just won’t that like now it’s just done. I think they won’t put out a statement. I think Yeah. No, no, I don’t think they have to now that the documents are being filed. Yeah. The documents say a lot and the documents have done all the talking for them. And I think that when you’re a celebrity, when you’re this famous, when you’re these documents are being put together, you almost have to do it in a way of knowing that every single thing you’re doing will be made public. And some celebrities, as we know, are just like, I don’t care. Like, I’m going to, you know, sue them for spousal support. I’m going to say what they did to me. There’s a lot of emotions going into that. Yeah. But this is so carefully curated to make it look like a very kind of mutual split behind the scenes, which is very different to the stories that are coming out. So, from looking at the document again, it’s very clear that this divorce has been in the works for a very, very long time, which is also interesting cuz they were spotted together 3 months ago. But the amount of detail that’s in these documents makes you think like it’s been in the works even longer. Like when they were spotted together, they potentially already working through their divorce proceedings. So, what’s in there is that they have um put the call you’ve got to put a cause for your marriage ending. And Nicole has put that they have experienced marital difficulties and irreconcilable differences which is kind of the main cause that most people put irreconcilable differences. Right. Okay. Cuz the others are like cheating, fraud, abuse. A lot darker. You can’t really tell what it actually was. Yes. Exactly. So they say that they I didn’t like the way he chewed his food. Yeah. And that is a difference I guess. So you put that in there. So, the couple say they officially separated on September 30 and they list that as their official date of separation and then there’s a lot of stuff about their custody arrangements and Nicole has been named the primary residential parent and the plan for their daughter’s custody arrangements. I do I I’m just going to acknowledge it’s a bit icky that we even know this. It’s because it’s such a personal thing involving their kids. But in the document, it says that they’ve agreed that the children will spend 306 days a year with Nicole Kidman and 59 days of the year with Keith Urban. Isn’t that wild? It’s It gets more intense than that. So, Keith Urban will have custody of their daughters on alternate weekends from Saturday at 10:00 a.m. through till Sunday at 6:00 p.m. And there’s no midweek kind of swap over. like they only do it like that. which is interesting because I’ve um have a lot of friends who have parents who have been divorced and when they were telling me about like their arrangements, it’s usually that where like they saw their dad every second weekend, but actually seeing the days like that in the year and the stark difference of numbers ex and the and the pickup time being 10 and being six and stuff. And again, I don’t know, every family’s kind of different, but also that’s kind of very almost like rigid, especially for such adult kids or a 17-year-old who could be like, I’m going to go to my parents this weekend or parents that weekend, but maybe this is just the best way for them to work it out. But I remember even um before like we even knew about the divorce um we knew that Nicole Kidman always talked about how much her kids love to travel because she was always traveling and they’ve like lived in so many different countries like in Europe, in Asia, in Australia, in Nashville. And I think see like if you knew that about like their kids’ lives, this doesn’t seem like such a stark difference cuz I feel like people who didn’t know that immediately they think it’s like these are two massive celebrities who both have to travel for work. Like he’s currently touring. She’s constantly in different countries filming. Like how would that work with like kids? And it’s like that’s just what they’ve always done anyway. Yeah. So it’s not going to feel like a huge different thing to them. Um, and I guess this is just what they’ve had to sort of put in the documents to really kind of they’ve gone Yeah. so intense with the details like he gets Father’s Day every year. On Thanksgiving, they get alternate years. Um, Nicole Kidman’s going to have them for Christmas on the oddnumbered years and he’s having to have them on the even numbers. Um, they’ve divided up all of their school holidays. What’s also interesting is that they have in the divorce document an agreement that they’ve both signed that they will never speak badly of each other or any members of their family and that they will encourage their children to love the other parent and be comfortable in both families. I’ve never seen that in documents. Yeah, it’s just Yeah, it’s like that’s in the divorce proceedings that they are not allowed to speak badly of each other. I guess when you’re so public, you have to lean into that side of it. This is also and if that happens, can they sue each other? Well, like it’s a legal document, I guess. So, well, I guess it would just kind of um change the terms of their divorce proceedings. It also says in there that they have both been mandated to attend a parenting seminar within 60 days of the divorce filing. What does that mean? Well, I guess it’s it’s a it’s just to kind of go over all the details like a seminar. Maybe it’s just something to kind of that the courts put in place. And I don’t know, that was a different one for me. I haven’t seen that in a celebrity filing. Yeah. Yeah. I think that’s what it is, like a mediation. Um, neither of them will pay each other any alimony or spousal support. I found that really interesting because I feel like when it comes to these celebrity divorce proceedings, that’s the first thing I look for because you are obviously so separate from it as the public because you’re seeing these two ultra rich people who both have so so much money. And I think it’s still interesting how it feels like such a common man battle of like who pays who and how much do you pay and like you still see these celebrities doing it and it’s like in the millions of dollars. Exactly. And sometimes you think like why are these celebrities fighting out in court? Like that’s what everyone was saying. It seems like such a private detail as well. Yeah. But I guess sometimes when it comes down it’s all relative to what your wealth is. I mean that’s why people thought it was so wild that Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie dragged each other through the courts for so many years. Not just about their custody arrangements, which is is fair enough. like when you both have such different views, you have to go to a court. But over there um their winery and their assets and everything and everyone was like, “Oh my god, just isn’t it worth you just you’re so rich just to lose a bit of the money to not be dragging all this public information out into the world.” But I guess at the end of the day, even if you’re rich, you’re like, I still want to keep my money. That’s how you stay rich. Um so this was the other interesting thing in there is that they don’t hold any joint assets. So there’s no real estate or anything. There’s pretty much nothing there to there’s no big assets to divide up. And it sounds like they don’t own property, but they actually own property. They don’t have any property that like that beautiful house that Nicole Gimman did her like Vogue 73 questions in or they’re like very famous Nashville residence. It’s all owned through businesses and trusts. Must be a tax write off situation. So there’s nothing in their names. But they actually don’t have joint assets. Well, no, no, they have some joint assets. They don’t have any joint big assets. Like all of their properties are not in their names. So they said they’ve already divided those up. They said they are both responsible for their own debts. And I was like, “What kind of debt are you guys in?” Talk more on that. Tell us. Yeah. It’s not just my business, but what do you owe with people? But they said they’ve even divided up their hotel, airline, and credit card points. Stop. Yeah. That’s so Australian. That is literally Why do you think it’s Australian? I think we are. So, okay. Nicole Kim is like, “I’ll give you the house, the Nashville home. I’ll take Christmas, you take Thanksgiving, but I’m taking my airline points.” When it comes to Quantis frequent flights, like we are so addicted to our airline points, like velocity frequent flights, like I feel like everyone over there. Everyone I talk to knows exactly how much points they have cuz we’re so far. Yeah, we rely on our points. Nicole Kim’s flying from Australia to Nashville back and forth. That woman’s got so many airline points. My points. I’d give my points to Nicole Kimman if she really needed them. Yeah, me too. Come on. She’s like just like like when I read that I was like this is so Australian. I know Americans like People magazine are looking through that going what the heck. Airline points. Yeah. Hotel points, credit card bills. Again, what’s all the far guys? Like it takes us like a It’s a long time to see the rest of the world and it’s a lot of money. Exactly. You just know that she’s like I got those points and I’m not giving them to you Keith Urban. I got those points. I had to move to Vietnam. I had to do this. I had to go to Singapore. I had to go to Europe. So everything else they say, and this is what makes me think that this must have been in the works for not just like I we only did really topline the custody arrangements there, but there’s pages and pages and pages of they have every every holiday, every day, every moment of these young girls’ lives has been divided between her parents in such meticulous detail that you think this must have been in the works for a long time. And the other thing that it says in the divorce proceedings is that they have already divided up all of their furniture, all of their art, their vehicles, and all of their personal belongings from all of their different homes from their over 20. I wish you divide up like personal belongings. So, I’m thinking things like photo albums. Yeah. Like that would be so meticulous. Like I guess they have assistants to do that for them. Yeah. But I also think like Sunday Rose and Faith in the house going that’s mom’s, that’s dad, that’s mom’s, that’s dad. But they have multiple homes too is the other thing. So again, this is it kind of feels to everyone that it was so sudden. I guess it was because we didn’t really know, but it does feel like this has been in the works a lot lot longer for 3 months. It seems very planned out. Yeah. So I would say that we’re going 6 months at least, maybe even like over a year. Wow. That they were publicly together. And I’m just obviously we have no idea and we’ll never know. But it feels like sometimes when they were very publicly together that behind the scenes they were already working through the details of their divorce proceedings so that the day it was leaked and they were able to file everything is already so meticulously carefully planned out that their divorce will just go straight through and then nothing else can be made public once that’s done. Yeah. Celebrities are so much stronger than I am. Well, I just think that they would if you look at just the the scrutiny they’ve already had. Just look at also all the gossip that’s flying around at the moment about them around like Nicole was I mean it was only two days ago that all these sources from like People magazine and stuff who usually have the right story. All these sources were saying she’s been desperately trying to save the marriage. She tried to make it work. But this proves that that’s not true. Because if she was desperately trying to save the marriage, why has she divided up her airline miles already and all their furniture and their children who they obviously, you know, has been like the center of like trying to make this like a smooth divorce. She’s so like I would struggle so hard doing the public thing while facing this in private. Like she’s so much I could never do that. Like Keith Urban if he was like to me, I love you baby girl. It’s like oh well I guess the divorce is off. Yeah. Go. We’re back together again. I don’t have to go and like divide up those paintings. And he gets home and he’s like I think I’m going to take that. And I’m like, “No, it’s it’s it’s been the public scrutiny has been so intense because they’ve obviously gone to such lengths to make it look like everything’s like we will never talk badly about each other. We love our children. Everything’s been divided. There’s no They’re basically It’s like Nicole Kimman and Keith Urban are like screaming from the rooftops.” Like there’s no story here and people are trying to invent a story because Exactly. There’s all those things about her being a workaholic and that’s why he left her and that she was begging to save the marriage. like that’s been a rumor and then there’s the rumor that he’s already found another young hot girlfriend and that’s the reason they’re bringing then we start digging right then we start looking at past interviews through a different lens like I’m seeing that interview of her and Jimmy Fallon they were kind of having that joke about them nearly dating and then Keith came in and she was sitting on his lap like it was like those kind of interviews and when he hung up on that radio show when they asked him about Nicole and I think Zack Efron it was that movie where she was with Zack Efron and it’s Like that’s what everyone’s going to do now. They’re going to go through the history in the public eye and look at it through another was so long ago. So bloody old. I don’t think we can pull Jimmy. Jimmy Jimmy found I’m pretty sure it was so long ago that I watched it on TV. Yeah. I didn’t even watch it on YouTube. It was not in the old Mir office, but the one before that. And that’s old. That’s old. We’ve been here for a long time. That’s when we were recording in this little box in the old office that we called the the choke. That’s how that’s how I tell time. So that I don’t think we should bring Jimmy Fall and his wife Nancy into this. Probably like, “Oh god.” Yeah. He’s like, “I’ve had enough of this.” But yeah, it’s kind of very telling. There’s also people there’s all these rumors starting that like there was a a drug clause in their prenup agreement and all these things and that Nicole came was allowed to leave him if he did this. Like all of these so many wild rumors and I won’t even get into like the most intense of them because I mean a lot of it’s just a lot of cheating and stuff. Um, and so it’s like that’s happening on one side and you know like their daughters are old enough like especially Sunday Rose who has her own Instagram and has making her own profile now. She would be seeing everything. Yes. And that’s just like there’s something about your parents you should not be seeing. Yeah. I think that’s why they’ve got on the they’ve gone on the defensive with this. Just coming straight out of the gate with like we filed and everything’s fine, everything’s perfect. We have a legal clause that we have to be nice to each other. Take that gossip people. So shut up everyone. Yeah. Yeah. So that’s that’s every little shocking detail from Nicole Kidman’s divorce filings, intense as it is. So it’s not nice. But hopefully now that’s kind of like, you know, the the stories move on fast. Like now that that’s done, it’s kind of been confirmed. Now we’re ready for Practical Magic 2. Yeah. Oh my god. Bring on Practical Magic, too. I was like, is that in the hidden the cold documents? Cuz I need to know a release date. Yeah. Yeah. The release dates in there. I know. Yeah. I will be cheering Nicole Kim on through that cuz I just love her as an actress. And and look, she’s got practical magic, too, to look forward to. What else does she need? As do we.

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00:00 – Welcome to The Spill!
00:51 – Amy Poehler & The Truth About Single Successful Women
03:25 – The Stat: 86% of Successful Men are Married
05:40 – Leonardo DiCaprio & Hollywood’s “Perpetually Single” Men
11:26 – Robert Irwin’s Viral, Sexy Dancing with the Stars Routine
14:49 – The Shirtless Hula Hoop Dance & Crocodile Neck Lift
18:19 – Robert Irwin’s Thirst Trap Rebrand & Snake Date Story
23:30 – Nicole Kidman Files for Divorce: Legal Document Made Public
27:17 – Custody Shock: The 306 Days vs 59 Days Arrangement
29:38 – The Unprecedented Legal Clause to Be “Nice”
32:40 – Dividing Qantas Frequent Flyer Points & Credit Card Debts
34:58 – Why the Divorce Was Clearly Planned Months Ago
38:08 – The Scrutiny of Celebrity Relationships & Moving On