When this originally aired, I didn’t understand why they would invited these Italian men to the living quarters of these American women. They’d already displayed some rude, and off putting behavior earlier that day.
I was about 19/20 years old then. Now I see it was forced. They set those girls up.
I’m sorry I just don’t feel bad for that girl. Even before she blacked out, she was already cheating on her man and making out with that guy in the hot tub. Now she’s a victim? Girl bye.
I remember how Tyra liked to SCOLD people – she'd make you cry,then soothe and hug you; that's when I realised what a manipulative ,gaslighting nut job she is and I saw this years ago in 2004!!!
Here is some free advice from a 51 year old – people ,watch out for people who play mind games with you – I had a neighbour like Tyra – she also liked to SCOLD ," You should have done this …and you shouldn't have said that" , "..and I noticed you..( insult ) and I noticed you..( insult)" ,the whole effing 6 years next door to me She would be so nasty one day with all her scolding and insults I'd go back inside and cry I'd swear to my late mother how I hate her and I'm going to tell her shit the next day she calls me Guess what? The next day,she would call me and pretend it didn't happen; she'd stand by the wall with biscuits for me and a pair of new shoes she didn't want ! She'd be all nice,nurturing and sweet – I'd wonder if maybe I'm the wrong one The cognitive dissonance is shocking- how can someone be so harsh the one day but be so kind the next? She eventually moved and then What's Apped me daily but the one day I didn't answer her message fast enough and found myself blocked- and that's when it dawned on me- it was like a lightbulb went on in my head and I said aloud to myself ," The narcissist's discard"- I am no longer needed. That's also what Tyra did- discarded Miss J.
Everyone involved (accept for the girls, of course) were reprehensible for this. It wasn't because they wers in a different time. It was abuse, humiliation, and exploitation to the highest degree.
Tyra claims that this was production's call. Tyra must forget that she owned 25% of the show. Tyra was the creator of the show and the Executive Producer of the show. How dare Tyra act as if she was powerless. Tyra either lacks empathy or has some severe mental issues.
Just one person had to say out loud "this is too far" and step in to protect Shandi while she very visibly couldn't consent to anything. If nothing else, afterwards take her the hosptial. They told her a story about what happened that wasnt true and forced her to own it when she knew it wasn't the truth and that she had actually been violated by that man, and then by whole crew by filming it, and then by production who kept her from a proper evaluation by anyone who should have responded and counseled her for being assaulted, and then filmed her doctor's appointment after refusing all that when they already knew they were wrong
Pass the blame. No one is taking responsibility. someone should have stood up for these people. Manipulation is what this show was from start to finish.
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Tyra is a snake
When this originally aired, I didn’t understand why they would invited these Italian men to the living quarters of these American women. They’d already displayed some rude, and off putting behavior earlier that day.
I was about 19/20 years old then. Now I see it was forced. They set those girls up.
Tyra is so shady!
People will sell their soul for good TV😢
I’m sorry I just don’t feel bad for that girl. Even before she blacked out, she was already cheating on her man and making out with that guy in the hot tub. Now she’s a victim? Girl bye.
She's a straight up narcissist
I remember how Tyra liked to SCOLD people – she'd make you cry,then soothe and hug you; that's when I realised what a manipulative ,gaslighting nut job she is and I saw this years ago in 2004!!!
Here is some free advice from a 51 year old – people ,watch out for people who play mind games with you – I had a neighbour like Tyra – she also liked to SCOLD ," You should have done this …and you shouldn't have said that" , "..and I noticed you..( insult ) and I noticed you..( insult)" ,the whole effing 6 years next door to me
She would be so nasty one day with all her scolding and insults I'd go back inside and cry
I'd swear to my late mother how I hate her and I'm going to tell her shit the next day she calls me
Guess what?
The next day,she would call me and pretend it didn't happen; she'd stand by the wall with biscuits for me and a pair of new shoes she didn't want !
She'd be all nice,nurturing and sweet – I'd wonder if maybe I'm the wrong one
The cognitive dissonance is shocking- how can someone be so harsh the one day but be so kind the next?
She eventually moved and then What's Apped me daily but the one day I didn't answer her message fast enough and found myself blocked- and that's when it dawned on me- it was like a lightbulb went on in my head and I said aloud to myself ," The narcissist's discard"- I am no longer needed.
That's also what Tyra did- discarded Miss J.
She is shameless
Tyra is a huge liar. lol How you don’t have control over that & you are the executive producer? 🤔🤦🏽♀️
The reality is the public that watched and made that show so sensational are the real bullies!!
Jay like “I’m going down, but so are you Tyra” 😂
They all going down together
NO. Don’t do that.
One, why didn't you say something? I thought she was unconscious and raped? You stayed she had sex in the shower. Odd 🤔.
Everyone involved (accept for the girls, of course) were reprehensible for this. It wasn't because they wers in a different time. It was abuse, humiliation, and exploitation to the highest degree.
Tyra claims that this was production's call. Tyra must forget that she owned 25% of the show. Tyra was the creator of the show and the Executive Producer of the show. How dare Tyra act as if she was powerless. Tyra either lacks empathy or has some severe mental issues.
What's happening with jay? He is still bitter with what happened between him and tyra for sure.
Just one person had to say out loud "this is too far" and step in to protect Shandi while she very visibly couldn't consent to anything. If nothing else, afterwards take her the hosptial. They told her a story about what happened that wasnt true and forced her to own it when she knew it wasn't the truth and that she had actually been violated by that man, and then by whole crew by filming it, and then by production who kept her from a proper evaluation by anyone who should have responded and counseled her for being assaulted, and then filmed her doctor's appointment after refusing all that when they already knew they were wrong
"One of the male models…" So they were hired/ cast to drive them around town and be there during the evening. This was a huge setup.
imitates Coco's voice
"Get her, Jay"
I hope this ruins Tyras career, she's a bad human
Pass the blame. No one is taking responsibility. someone should have stood up for these people. Manipulation is what this show was from start to finish.
Jay you just mad you got the boot. Let it go