Zendaya talks about the first time she met Tom Holland and how she knew that he was “her person”:

Is it just me overthinking or she actually got emotional while talking about him 🥹

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This is exactly what you should look for in a relationship. I spent so long wanting people who actually made me feel so anxious and unmoored. Whereas my partner feels like home to me.

Since they’re so private people seem to pay more attention to them when they say anything about each other even if it’s completely normal and insignificant. Not saying they should be very public but they’re elusiveness makes people want to know even more.

This is how I felt with my boyfriend (8 years). I was dating someone else at the time (who tended to make me feel never good enough), but we were friends, and the first time we hung out, I was like, “Oh, this is what it feels like not to have to worry or feel insecure or unsure of themselves.” I felt at ease talking to him and being around him, but when I was away from him, I felt sad.

And the thing is, even after he asked me out and we started dating, he told me that he really was looking for companionship, and if that meant us being only friends, he would accept that because he just wanted me in his life.

This is what I was telling my boyfriend the other night, even the huge difference between me spending the night at his vs alone is… racing mind, inability to slow down my mind and when I’m with him? Calm. My mind shuts down and I can just sleep and not fret/worry/feel overwhelming anxiety about everything.

I feel like this should be used as a PSA – especially for young women. Too often young people confuse the fight or flight reaction they feel around a charming or ambivalent new stranger for infatuation or attraction. It’s similar to the “call of the void”, that attraction some people feel when they’re close to a cliff edge.

Real attraction feels like small crackles and calm. Like a play date with your bestie when you were little

Yes!! That’s exactly what I’m looking for 💯

she rarely gets so personal and i love that she’s using this press run to talk a little bit about their love. it’s so sweet!

They deserve each other, and I mean that in the best possible way.

#happilyeverafter please and thank you.

This is how I feel about my gf. I didn’t get butterflies, I just felt at peace and everyone else was on a dimmer switch.

Does anyone know what timeline was with her dating Jacob Elordi? Did she date Tom first, they split, then she got with Jacob? Just asking cos I’m nosy.

that’s such a beautiful way to feel. having a partner that completely regulates your nervous system is a blessing

That’s exactly how I felt when I met my wife. We didn’t feel like strangers, we clicked instantly and I felt so relaxed with her which is crazy as I struggled mightily with social anxiety back then.

She made me feel like I mattered, she listened and cared instantly. She didn’t judge my anxiety, she helped and everything felt so easy with her. Legitimately on our first date it felt like we had already been friends for years, I knew she was the one. 9 years later, that feeling is still there!