Figuring this out is genuinely one of the best parts about getting older. Literally nothing bad happens if you stop caring about if other people find you attractive, and it’s so freeing.
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Jordan Peele:
ShinyPrizeKY on
Yes, bitch. With all sincerity, this is the ethos that helped me let go of the lifelong self hatred I’ve had as someone who’s been fat for a lot of my life. Who gives a shit? You can be fat, ugly, and worthy of love and happiness all at the same time
MaxRepels on
Youre telling me this is ugly???
DrFranFine on
One of the things that has helped my confidence soooo much is accepting that aspects of my appearance just don’t fit the beauty standard. Those things can still be beautiful to myself and others, but they’re still “ugly” by mainstream beauty standards and I don’t have to change them or gaslight myself into thinking they’re actually not that far from the beauty standards.
LeviHolden on
there is so much pressure to be beautiful these days! statistically most of use are just average to fine looking. kill that ego, babes!
velvetswing on
She’s a Zionist so she’s extra ugly
Conscious_List9132 on
Life changing advice. Love her !
Alternative-Heat2696 on
How the hell did he tell everyone to Get Out but its cool for him to Stay In?
bunnycrush_ on
Body positivity was a misdirect imo, what I try to live by + what I think our culture needs is BODY NEUTRALITY.
How I look is not intrinsic to who I am as a person. It is morally neutral. My body’s just my house, and I try to take reasonably good care of it, but it’s not, like, a personal failing if I gain or lose weight in an unappealing way. Or wear an outfit that makes me look dumpy. Or the “wrong” colors for my skintone. Etc.
Preventative this, collagen supplement that, maintenance maintenance maintena— shush!!! I’m busy being a person! I am living my one wild and precious life and I simply can’t psychologically afford to give a fuck about my saddlebags!
glassey on
A related revelation is accepting that you could look a lot hotter but don’t care enough to put in the effort and cost. You have better things to spend your time and money on!
Slammer956 on
I’m a ugly who wants a pretty but waiting is making me a lonely
Specific-Diver-4108 on
youwigglewithagiggle on
So true. So so true
superpananation on
This is so true! Stop wasting your time
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Since_The_Ducks_Left on
I need this audio to be my alarm in the morning
Rich-Put4159 on
i disagree
BulkyRip7631 on
I saw this video earlier this morning and honestly it’s really nice to hear. As bad as it sounds you don’t *need* to be pretty
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Figuring this out is genuinely one of the best parts about getting older. Literally nothing bad happens if you stop caring about if other people find you attractive, and it’s so freeing.
Jordan Peele:
Yes, bitch. With all sincerity, this is the ethos that helped me let go of the lifelong self hatred I’ve had as someone who’s been fat for a lot of my life. Who gives a shit? You can be fat, ugly, and worthy of love and happiness all at the same time
Youre telling me this is ugly???
One of the things that has helped my confidence soooo much is accepting that aspects of my appearance just don’t fit the beauty standard. Those things can still be beautiful to myself and others, but they’re still “ugly” by mainstream beauty standards and I don’t have to change them or gaslight myself into thinking they’re actually not that far from the beauty standards.
there is so much pressure to be beautiful these days! statistically most of use are just average to fine looking. kill that ego, babes!
She’s a Zionist so she’s extra ugly
Life changing advice. Love her !
How the hell did he tell everyone to Get Out but its cool for him to Stay In?
Body positivity was a misdirect imo, what I try to live by + what I think our culture needs is BODY NEUTRALITY.
How I look is not intrinsic to who I am as a person. It is morally neutral. My body’s just my house, and I try to take reasonably good care of it, but it’s not, like, a personal failing if I gain or lose weight in an unappealing way. Or wear an outfit that makes me look dumpy. Or the “wrong” colors for my skintone. Etc.
Preventative this, collagen supplement that, maintenance maintenance maintena— shush!!! I’m busy being a person! I am living my one wild and precious life and I simply can’t psychologically afford to give a fuck about my saddlebags!
A related revelation is accepting that you could look a lot hotter but don’t care enough to put in the effort and cost. You have better things to spend your time and money on!
I’m a ugly who wants a pretty but waiting is making me a lonely
So true. So so true
This is so true! Stop wasting your time
I need this audio to be my alarm in the morning
i disagree
I saw this video earlier this morning and honestly it’s really nice to hear. As bad as it sounds you don’t *need* to be pretty