Halle Berry talks about faking orgasms when she was younger to make her partners feel better about themselves: “Everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done. You just want the pounding to stop. And then you take your vibrator to the bathroom and handle it yourself”
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> Everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done
Fuck no, I’m not giving someone credit for something they didn’t do š¤£ and you can just be done when you want to be
1. Speak for yourself.
2. We **really** should know less about each other.
I used to be like the commenters saying theyād never fake an orgasm for a manās ego until I was confronted with an aggressive boyfriend who switched on a dime the second he thought his sexual prowess was being questioned. Never been so scared in my life and I completely understand why women fake orgasms now
Wonder if she faked it with Billy bob š¤£
Crying because my ex absolutely thought I was orgasming until he saw me use my toy and he got super upset, lol. But he’d never bothered to do anything about it and I was happy but not that happy.
Peep the flair
She is deaf in one ear because of a male actor I believe beat her. Iām sure thereās other shit we will never hear. Bless her.
She shouldāve took Prince up on his offer fr
I hate to learn sad things about intelligent, beautiful, successful women.
I never faked it but I dont think my partners really cared either way. š¤·āāļø so there’s that.
I donāt know, I enjoy my sex life, never need to do that, husband encourages me to use my toy after sex to ācontinue the joyā, we are both happy.
Not everyone fakes itā¦I get the āif your partner is horribleā situation.
Nothing wrong with that.
I fake mine all the time
My past girlfriends have just said they arenāt going to cum if they arenāt and thatās fine š¤·āāļø Iāve also not been able to finish from time to time
Or, consider learning to communicate like an adult. If you do this with zero effort to inform your partner, or don’t have the self awareness to explain the right way to do things, then it’s just as much on you.
People have vastly different preferences in bed, what makes it work and what kills it can absolutely be the same thing across two different people. If this kind of thing happens regularly you should consider not expecting others to be able to read your mind.
Edit: Obviously if you are in a situation where upsetting your partner is dangerous that is a caveat to this. The majority of interactions are not going to go that way, but it’s important to recognize that some will.
Wait, is this true for all women? Is this what I have to expect, as a woman?
If a woman who is like, in the top 5% of the most beautiful people in the world has to fake it because some man canāt be bothered. What hope is there for the rest of us ?
I read parents and became VERY concerned for a second
What a way to admit that youāre lousy and uncommunicative at sex. You can smell the crazy on her.
I will never understand how a man can not WANT to make sure his partner also gets off. Like I’m not even starting my own shit until she has had at least one orgasm.
As a guy, I don’t think I’ve ever faked in my life
Makes me kind of laugh. The moment you tell a man you didn’t orgasm, you fear the response to them feeling rejected. Even sex becomes a performance. If women honestly adhered to honesty being the best policy, a lot of men’s masks would slip. The question of, did you cum? post sex is to validate their ego rather than to genuinely hear what you like/dislike in the bedroom. Of course that requires patience, guidance and the capacity to withstand some form of “criticism”. Most men have trouble with this.
Am I the only one who remembers when faking orgasms was a very frequent topic in movies and tv shows? Off the top of my head: When Harry met Sally
Honestly it was so normalised for men to not really care about their partner’s satisfaction
Itās twice or he says we arenāt done. š¤·š»āāļø
Exhibit 324 of why heterosexuality makes zero sense to me. How the hell do yall ever make it work
Edit: just a joke, breeders! Haha donāt worry youāre still Godās favorites
David Justice in shambles right now.
“Everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done. You just want the pounding to stop”
this is true and it’s so sad. And normalized
im pretty surprised at everyone always saying they faked it because their partner wanted to know if they “did it”. I have never faked one because none of the guys i have been with cared if i came or not
i wonder which is worse lol
idk man I communicate with my partner and use toys together, I know she loves it so we just combine it all to have the best experience.
Edit: not take away very legit experiences here of course!
Who tf are yall dating ???
Yeah god forbid you communicate with your partner what you need and how to get you there.
Getting pounded like he was using her to masterbate. – Carrie Bradshaw
This is so sad. I feel so bad for straight women
thank god iām aromantic and asexual. this sounds like a damn nightmare and i would rather eat glass than have to go through this. the way she describes it sounds heartbreaking.
Fellow men: Be better.
You know, I thought I’d make a joke about us guys faking ours too but I am reading so many horror stories of y’all fearing or even receiving physical and mental abuse *for trying to be open and honest.* I am so sorry. Really and truly this shit has got to stop.
And in this current socio-political climate, supposedly smart men are pushing women to accept horribly disfiguring surgeries and subservient roles. It makes me furious that we can’t have nice things because our society is allowing man-babies free reign.
And I believe social media is really to blame for perpetuating these toxic beliefs. Again, I’m sorry y’all have been going through this.
We need to know less about each other
It takes a lot of growth to realize that protecting someone else’s fragile ego isn’t worth sacrificing your own satisfaction.
I used to fake them because if I wouldn’t cum he would shame me. You read that right. He would do nothing to pleasure me then he’d get pissed that I didn’t just magically cum because his penis entered me.
Ive never done that, but it sucks people go through this
She sounds like a shitty lay. I’m just sayingĀ
Why so many people having sex with people who are so shit xD
Why is this normalize? To have sex with people you might feel unsafe around, or where they don’t give a damn about your part of the activity. Insanity to me lol
So is it because the men are not listening to what’s working for women or it just rarely works for women what men have to offer?
Iām a lesbian who has never faked it (which has led to a few very awkward encounters that still keep me up at night), so the stories in this thread have been eye opening.
I definitely never faked it. If he hasnāt handled business, heaven forbid he walks away thinking he has gained experience in handling business and wants to return to conduct more business!
Contract not fulfilled, letās talk about the terms and conditions that havenāt been met and how we can get the job done correctly lmao
