Jennifer Lopez gives her hot take: You have to be born to be in New York to be a New Yorker. Everybody wants to claim our city but you have to be born in one of the five boroughs to be a New Yorker.



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    1. Are other places like this? I moved to Seattle fifteen years ago, and I call myself a Seattleite.

      Eh, it’s not like I need permission.

    2. grumplebeardog on

      New York people love to fellate themselves to the idea that somehow they’re better than everyone else when the entire city was constructed on the backs of non-native immigrants. Shit is beyond stupid.

      If I’m traveling abroad I say where I’ve lived the last decade, not where I was born 30+ years ago and it’s not out of some desire to look cool since both places have roughly equal reputations.

    3. totallycalledla-a on

      I wish people from New York who constantly purity test who is and isnt a “New Yorker” could see how irritating they are to everyone else.

      Actually that goes for everyone from anywhere who does this kind of thing tbh. Its weird and kinda hostile, where you’re from shouldnt be such an aggressively gatekept part of your personality āœŒšŸæšŸ©·

      Edit to clarify: As I said below

      “I’ll edit to clarify. I wrote too fast I meant mainland American cities. Obviously the dynamics of claiming to be from various other places are different and more complex.”

    4. Impossible_Net4275 on

      thinking about that time she went to her old house and the man living there though she was trespassing cause he didn’t know who tf she was 😭

    5. so by her own logic she’s not a real puerto rican šŸ™‚ā€ā†”ļø

    6. Strange-Painting6257 on

      ā€œWhat did I just say?ā€

      ā€œOur whole government!ā€

      Okay she kinda did her big one here lol. And I love that she advocates for her child and sister’s child.

    7. Chi_Town_Law on

      Chicagoans are the same way lol The lowkey test is they ask what middle scholl you went to šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

    8. I find the native vs. transplant ā€œdebateā€ for any city so incredibly tiring. If you’re from a major city (NYC no less) I really don’t think you have any right to be upset at people moving there. It became a major city for a reason

    9. Inspirationseekr on

      This strikes me wrong if you think about it from an immigration perspective. A lot of people are proud to call themselves Americans once getting citizenship, and I would not feel like taking that pride away from them because they were not born here. I do not like that take.

      Edit: fixed typo

    10. ChargeEast1982 on

      I love having been born and raised in New York but it’s not that deep. Knowing subway takes I don’t think jlo is being hateful (although I’m usually not a fan of her) but the people arguing in the comments definitely are

    11. tituspeetus on

      ā€œYou take on characteristics of New Yorkers but that’s not the sameā€ that’s literally what children do too when they grow up in an area

    12. WineNotReality on

      Gatekeeping what makes a New Yorker when she has mostly lived in LA for 35 years.

    13. in fact, only people born in manhattan are new yorkers!!šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™‚ļø

    14. FederalCover2020 on

      A city built on the back of immigrants and somehow you’re not a New Yorker if you’re not born there.

      Make it make sense lmao

    15. I mean…it is called subway takes for a reason!!!

      with that said… in about 4 years or so, I would have lived longer in LA than I did my hometown/home country. And when people ask me if I’m from LA, I still dont say I’m an Angeleno or I am from here. So i guess i get her

    16. I think there’s a difference between being a New Yorker and culturally understanding New York City. I think what she and many people from the city are speaking about has more to do with culture and a way of being. Understanding that there’s cultural differences in every place in every part of the world that make us all unique.

      There’s a running joke where I’m from (Minneapolis/Minnesota) of someone being ā€œone of usā€ and this idea you have to earn this badge of honor. It’s definitely not a thing that’s taken as serious as in NYC and is generally just a joke but I do think this is a thing everywhere in one way or another.

    17. crookedframe13 on

      You know growing up a military brat wasn’t always the most fun with needing new friends about every two years but I really appreciate that I never could develop that weirdly intense regional tribalism that people do.

    18. MajorPaper4169 on

      Look, as a New Yorker, I don’t care if you claim it or not… just get outta the way.