Olivia Wilde talking about the backlash she received for dating Harry Styles on ‘Call her Daddy’



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    1. Wasn’t the anger because she was still married to Jason Sudekis at the time? The perception was that she was blowing her family up for Styles. Florence Pugh was very unhappy with Wilde and the timeline of her relationship with Styles. One of the reasons Don’t Worry Darling was a trainwreck.

      I don’t think people really care that much about her being older. No one cares that Jessica Alba is dating a guy 12 years younger when she separated from her husband. Most people are like good for him.

      This feels like some great spin.

    2. Mother-Attention4930 on

      this podcast sucks out relationship stories from white women like dementors

    3. WildMajesticUnicorn on

      Alex’s framing of the question seems to miss that Olivia wasn’t just in a position of power as in she was a powerful person, but she was in a position of power over Harry and his work place. The rumor was that it affected the work environment for everyone on set.

      Also in this interview Olivia says she knew her relationship with Jason was over in March 2020, months before Harry was cast, which is interesting that she gives so much more detail. I don’t think you can talk about the backlash without looking at the fact that she and Jason still looked like a couple to the outside world until much later. Some of the outrage came from the belief she cheated.

      All that said, I appreciate that she said she and Jason are great co-parents. All other mess aside, good for them for putting differences aside to do their best for the kids.

    4. missbestdressed on

      all the comments filled with misinformation claiming she is ignoring the fact that she ā€œcheated on her husbandā€ despite the fact that she wasn’t even married shows that it’s probably a good thing she’s speaking on this.

    5. prisonerofazkabants on

      olivia has said her relationship with jason was over months before it was announced. jason has never corrected that, iirc the only thing he said was that he didn’t understand why they split. and it was only the nanny that said they were still living together and jason was trying to win her back, until olivia put an end to it in late 2020. tbh none of that contradicts for me? it was covid, a lot of separated couples stayed physically together during that time, especially if they had kids. hell, ben stiller and christine taylor bubbled together for their kids and ended up calling off their divorce because of it. clearly olivia was out. so i don’t know why people are so certain olivia just decided on a whim to leave jason for harry. and jason moved on pretty quickly with keeley hazell – who he had known for years and wrote a specific part for on ted lasso.

    6. Electric-Sheepskin on

      All these comments are just sort of proving the point that women are judged much more harshly than men. Everyone trying to justify the extreme reactions instead of acknowledging how disproportionate they were.

      First of all, you all are assuming there was cheating, when she herself is claiming that there wasn’t, so where is that coming from?

      Second, male directors have been having flings with their female stars ever since the beginning of movie making. If people want to have a discussion about how directors shouldn’t be having flings with their stars and how it’s unprofessional, that’s fair, but you cannot deny that even in the current climate, it’s mostly hand waved away when the director is a man and the star is a woman. People may talk about it in negative terms, but a male director will never receive the absolute vitriol that she did. Can we at least acknowledge that?

    7. hedgehogwart on

      The comments in this post are quite deranged and clear that people here fell for the hate campaign that was waged against her.

    8. Reminder : Jason Sudeikis has the same PR people as Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt and Justin Baldoni.

      For the people who think Sudeikis’ side is automatically the correct side.

    9. The funniest part of the don’t worry darling drama to me was her talking up the movie saying it’s about female pleasure and women having orgasms on camera then you watch the movie and it’s about a bunch of shitty dudes holding their wives and girlfriends hostage in a virtual reality world

    10. This situation always pissed me off so much. Divorces are messy. Yes, Olivia was being a messy, imperfect person. But a movie came out at the exact same time as hers (Amsterdam) that was directed by an actual serial abuser and admitted sexual predator. Yet she got 100x the hate at the time. The rumors about what she might have done were somehow made to be astronomically worse than what the male director actually admitted to doing. That’s the world we live in.

    11. NHLwatch4765 on

      Sorta shocked by comments here. Women do get judged SO harshly if they date significantly younger men. How many times does a 39/40 year old man date a 25 year old girl and no one bats an eye. But in reverse, it’s how dareeee she!!! I’ve never understood the double standard and misogyny. People were incredibly mean to her then. Don’t Worry Darling was a good movie. She marketed it poorly, but I think she did a solid job. Not one person gave her credit for it or that movie any positive press.

      How many super old dudes do we see dating women in their 20s and nobody really bats an eye? Again, I don’t get it. Her ex husband also ran a nasty PR campaign against her behind the scenes.

    12. raphaellaskies on

      This was such a great moment in celebrity gossip. Florence Pugh strolling into Venice with a drink in her hand. Harry Styles spitting on Chris Pine. “It feels like a movie.” Just banger after banger.

    13. I actually thought there were was a ton of misogyny in how Olivia was treated. Surprised to see the comments on here still dumping on her… the level of vitriol directed towards this lady as soon as she started dating Harry was absolutely insane.

    14. This comment section is a cesspool 😭 just another reminder women are always judged more harshly especially by other women.

    15. I always just wanted to know why Florence Pugh hated her lol I remember her and Harry were going out during covid that pissed ppl off too. That being said I would hate to date Harry Styles, he has a fanbase that will hate any woman he dates AND on top of that he won’t speak a word to defend you. He doesnt have to come out and call some of them losers, but he could at least be more intentional in his relationships rather than living in the ambiguity that his fans look for to shit on the women. Like post her on you IG or share a story, anything that says “hey this is my gf, deal with it”

    16. dreamed2life on

      Its like yall dont know how to comprehend or refuse to.

      OLIVIA WAS NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH JASON WHEN SHE DATED HARRY.

      +

      JASON WAS TATING A WOMAN FAR YOUNGER WHEN OLIVIA WAS DATING HARRY

      So drag Jason too or get over it and move on.

    17. AdmirableNovel_new on

      Jason Sudekis was/is a client of Melissa Nathan and TAG PR. One of Melissa’s favorite Daily Mail writers, Ruth Styles was the one who got the exclusive from the Nanny.

      The backlash/outrage was helped along by TAG planting outrageous stories in the Daily Mail and PageSix.

    18. HeretoFore200 on

      I feel like culturally we have a vacuum from the absence of Barbra Walters and Wendy Williams. For as problematic as they were, celebrities are too in control of their own narratives lately in ways that are kind of pmo — getting to go on these soft podcast press tours with Jake Shane and CHD where they basically have scripted fluff interviews designed to astroturf authenticity bothers me.

      This is the smallest potatoes, but I also feel this way in the political sense now too, where we’re losing the important adversarial role of press and journalism

    19. AdmirableNovel_new on

      Ruth Styles was disclosed as one of Melissa Nathan’s preferred ā€œjournalistsā€ during the Blake Lively lawsuits.

      If you go back and look at her articles with the Daily Mail, she often writes nasty stories about the people Melissa is targeting with her crisis PR. She had plenty to write about Olivia Wilde during that whole thing. I also suspect she’s behind/helped with the whole process server situation where Olivia was served while accepting a directing award.

    20. keepitunrealbb on

      Wasn’t the problem that she dramatically left her husband for her employee/actor and her nanny made public tell alls and it was a huge public mess?

    21. Temporary_Ad9362 on

      his fans and really any fans of the 1d boys are wildly misogynistic. and i’m saying this as a 1d/harry fan

    22. Junior_Bill_4691 on

      I don’t keep up with CHD, how did she become so popular. I’ve seen a few interview reels and she seems like a good interviewer, but how did she get the opportunity to interview celebs back in her early early careerĀ 

    23. BrownHoney114 on

      Please…. Director actor relationshipsšŸ˜‘šŸ˜’

      Ok, watermelon water

    24. No-Shoulder6395 on

      “Wow… uh… fuckin’… idk… like… fuckin'” I could barely finish this

      Olivia looks like Bo Derek