Callum Turner’s ex Victoria Villarroel speaks on their relationship: “This man would be like ‘I would never date someone who gets paparazzi’ed, I would never date a famous person. I would never go to the MET Gala, that’s corny.'”
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Later in the podcast, she mentioned that he would not post her on his social media and refuse to allow her to post him on hers because he said he’s a private person who doesn’t like his personal life being in the spotlight.
I live for gossip
I think the key difference here is his new woman is Dua Lipa and sheâs not Dua Lipa
People change â and maybe falling in love with Dua Lipa makes you ok with things or see things differently
The unfortunate reality of life is that people change (or maybe, are willing to make peace with things they don’t like) for the person they want to be with
I love gossip, but who?
I mean, sometimes you meet someone and your priorities change, not a novel concept
He meant heâd never do it for YOU đŹ
He found someone who he wants to do this stuff with, I donât know whatâs wrong with it. This just seems like jealousy that stems from the fact that sheâs not Dua Lipa lol
He did not do a 360. He did a 180. Good Lord.
sounds like callum just didnât like her that much or if he did, those were his boundaries at the time. thereâs nothing really inherently wrong with that. people change. and clearly he liked dua enough to change or compromise on some things. i donât think sheâs necessarily being bitter either, sheâs allowed to talk about her exes.
With you, sweetie…he’d never do those things with you.
there’s a huge difference between being an influencer and posting your more famous partner on your socials and people who are famous for their skills/talents posting their partner on their social media. one of you uses social media to make money.
i haaaaate doing stuff with influencer friends, everything is a fuckin photo op.
Not everybody needs to have a podcast (or be in one) <3
Iâd change everything about me for Dua Lipa too and Iâm a straight woman
Itâs just sad and I think we should be more empathetic to what sheâs saying. He didnât break up with her right off the bat but he also probably didnât see a future with her if he wasnât willing to change on that stuff but would for Dua Lipa. And for everyone going âwell, sheâs not Dua Lipaâ itâs not like sheâs hideous either. IMO sheâs extremely similar looking to Dua and kind of ethereally gorgeous. A guy led a girl on but wasnât serious about her. Thatâs sad. It doesnât make anyone involved bad people and it doesnât make her bad for saying it. And if youâre saying sheâs bitter – yeah, wouldnât you be too?
Just like the men who say they don’t want to get married/have kids. Then get married and have kids. What they didn’t say: “I don’t want to get married, have kids, walk the red carpet, etc…with you.”
Girl I’ve been there and I know it hurts, but this is not going to get the response you think it will. Should’ve just privately vented to your friends about it.
All I can think about is Todd in the Shadows discussing Lorde’s Green Light and her being like you said you hated the beach, maybe he didn’t like doing that will you. And that’s what I think here.
Victoria saying that Callum didnât want to post her and vice versa shouldâve been the ultimate red flag. It seems like she wasnât the one he wanted to be seen with in general and thatâs telling on both ends.
Okay but he dated Vanessa Kirby from 2015 to 2019. It’s not like he never dated any body that was famous ever before Dua lipa.
I mean, I would imagine going to the Met Gala with Dua Lipa is a different and probably more pleasant experience than going with some grasping influencer at the bottom of the food chain?
I’m not gonna wait in line to get photographed on a red carpet, but VIP service to the head of the line doesn’t sound, like, THAT bad.
I thought when she met him he was reading a book? Was he not book boy?
Thereâs a slew of male celebs who act this way when they are dating influencers or non famous women but change it up when dating someone more well known than them. I donât even think itâs about the person changing but about the fact that they donât want someone using them for clout or attention whereas being posted with their celeb SO gives them more attention and new fans
Honestly it sucks for her and I don’t begrudge her for feeling bitter (if I thought my relationship was going great and then my partner left me to go have a high profile relationship where pictures of them being happy in love were all over the place, I’d probably be a bit bitter too! It’s just an unfortunate situation to be in!) but he didn’t cheat and sometimes it just happens that you meet someone and know they’re a better match for you than the person you’re already with. It sounds like Callum is just so happy to be with Dua that he no longer cares about paparazzi or thinking the Met Gala is corny.
She’s an influencer. I think there’s a meaningful difference between being posted for income-generating content on your less-famous partner’s social media, and being posted on your equally-famous partner’s social media.
You can look at it as “he didn’t see a future with her” and therefore was more private, but I think there’s an equal concern *he* might have had that she viewed their relationship as a way to gain clout and expand her audience. I think that would be a reasonable concern for any famous person who dates an influencer.
He meet dua while dating her?đ
Did the diary factory explode
Did journaling become illegal
you guys really pick and choose..
I donât think this man changed, per se.
I think he was telling this woman, who doesnât have paparazzi following her, that he doesnât want a famous partner who gets invites to the Met Gala, to make her feel better.
âDonât worry love, I donât want another celebrity; I want youâ.
Are we glossing over the fact that she said he met Dua while he was at a restaurant with her but the story he and Dua tell is they met in an airport bc they were reading the same book? Someone is lying lol
no iâd be pissed too, before they wouldnât even post each on social media because he wanted to âbe privateâ and celebrity events were âcornyâ but *now* since it benefits him financially heâs game. like, okay dude.
I really want to know what dula peep has done to be able to avoid the lashings other famous people get for doing the same things she does
Is this video old because she talked about this before
Hmm I feel like comments are skewed coz sheâs kardashian adjacent. People do have the right to change – and do for the people they love. Itâs still shit for Vic though, and sheâs the same amount of woman as dua
Yeeeah but he wants to be James Bond (allegedly) so… priorities change ig. We’re gonna see EVERY aspect of their relationship and don’t question any of the why lol
“I just woke up one day and knew”
“Knew what?”
“What I was never sure of with you”
That quote made me try not to take things too personally. Sometimes, it’s not that you weren’t enough or not worth changing for.
Sometimes these things just happen, that even the person themselves did not know they were changing because of another person. I feel like that’d be better too than them have them stay with me and compromise by consciously changing who they are for me, then end up resenting me. C’est la vie.
Multiple things can be true. Callum could have been a less than stellar partner to Victoria when they dated years ago. He also seems to be a great partner to Dua. People change. Sometimes they change for a person and sometimes they change with age.
I can empathize with Victoria feeling like she got a worse version of a person. I can emphasize with Dua who has spent years building a life with someone. And I can emphasize with Callum who is having his personal life put on blast.
I’m surprised by how negative these comments are towards Victoria. I think she’d be receiving a bit more empathy if this were a less popular couple.
We know nothing about Dua and Callum’s relationship besides what they’ve sold us – through carefully curated pap walks and instagram posts.
Their relationship is still relatively new, and they’ve relentlessly used it for publicity since it started. In my opinion, Callum’s ‘180’ probably has less to do with his feelings for either woman and more to do with self interest.
18 months ago, Callum was barely known. In contrast, Dua is a globally famous multimillionaire.
Their relationship (and their joint PR campaign) has made him the main Bond candidate. I’m sure he loves Dua, but it has undeniably benefited him both financially and professionally to publicly align himself with her
Victoria is an influencer, best known for being Kylie Jenner’s friend. She had much less to offer him.
The fact that they made this whole thing about meeting each other while reading the same book or something and now it turns out he was at a restaurant with a different woman when he met Dua?⌠Lol.
I knew the comments would take Callumâs side just because of Dua Lipa but if she was a nobody everyone would agree with Victoria that he was weird for that.
The callum defence squad us out.
If he was a woman he’d be getting called a thirsty social climber.
I dont know this girl but I understand her being bitter because she realized that he wont step up for her. That is really hurtful and tough pill to swallow. If part of her coping is doing this podcast then yeah I get it.
Also, I know Dua Lipa is generally loved here but if the scenarios are reversed then I think some of you will switch and be like how dare he!
I’m surprised at these comments, usually y’all would be jumping on the guy. Is Callum Turner a Reddit idol or something?
My thoughts, I don’t think Callum is wrong to say these things but he’s a very unspecial, mid actor with not much charisma going on. I’m not surprised he dated this influencer.
If my ex married dua lipa my confidence would be wrecked
Them meeting Dua Lipa together was sad to hear. Iâve been in that situation and it does suck.
I remember I knew immediately that there was a sneaky spark, and my head wouldnât let it go but my ex denied it wholeheartedly. Then when he did get with her I questioned every little moment.
Oh he has a type lmaooo