Tori Spelling in Hollywood at the iHeart Radio Awards in March 2026
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Tori Spelling said that she’s not in her “I-want-a-date era,” but has started hormone replacement therapy and expects “sex urges through the roof.”
“No one asks me out,” the Beverly Hills, 90210 alum, 53, told Michael Rosenbaum on his podcast Inside of You, saying that a romantic life is not really a priority, especially since her divorce from her husband Dean McDermott was only finalized last year.
“I’m so focused right now on work and kids that I don’t know. I’m not in my, like, ‘I-want-a-date era.’ “
Rosenbaum, 53, asked the actress if she sees herself as, ” ‘I’m divorced. I’m a mom. I don’t need to go wine and dine all the time. It’s like, I kind of want to just have a little fun, too?”
“Yes and no,” Spelling replied. “I can’t imagine sitting at dinner and making small talk … That sounds exhausting.”
Tori Spelling with Dean McDermott in Los Angeles in 2019
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“What about just no-nonsense, non-committal sex?” he asked. “Does that interest you?”
“No,” Spelling replied. “I mean, maybe in the future, but right now, no.” That’s because, as she added, “I just got hormone replacement or whatever, so I’m told I’m going to have—”
“You’re going to be horny,” he said.
“Sex urges through the roof,” she said.
“I think when that happens, you’re going to get a lot of dates,” Rosenbaum told Spelling.
“No!” she replied. “I’m a numbers girl,” before clarifying that “the youth call it body count,” referencing the term for the amount of sexual partners someone has had. But as Spelling says, “I’m a numbers girl. Always have been.”
These days, what she’s looking for is “very different now, I think in my life, than when I was younger.”
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She said she wants a man with a “brain,” calling it “mental sex.”
“I just want that mental stimulation,” she said. “I like to be challenged.”
But, as she shared, “I always worried about this in life. Like, if I ever got a divorce, no one’s going to date me with five kids,” she said, referencing the children she shares with McDermott: Liam, 19, Stella, 18, Hattie, 14, Finn, 13, and Beau, 9.
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Meanwhile, McDermott is focused on his recovery, revealing that he’s reached the three-year anniversary of being sober, calling it the “best decision I’ve ever made” in an Instagram post. McDermott, 59, has previously shared that his struggles with alcohol caused their marital problems.
When Rosenbaum asked if Spelling would ever reconcile with McDermott, she said “I don’t know” but did acknowledge, “We have five kids together, so we’re never going to be done. We co-parent really well.”
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