JENNIFER LOPEZ & BEN AFFLECK READY 2 PART WAYS! BEN DOES NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN THIS DIDDY MESS!

on a c November night when I met my misses right my feelings come to life again my feelings come I didn’t care I just saw was standing near and my feelings come to life again my miss my one one and only one hello my darling for nation how are you a how are we my name is f Salu for those of you that are stopping by for the very first time you’re so very welcome indeed are we living and loving I think I have won this fabulous cfan from SI and koi about dozen times on this show I just feel very resorted in this it’s the only thing I can wear because it is absolutely hot hot hot hot hot hot in London are we living and are we loving this is the bag gorgeous and then look at the front fabulosity it’s Airy it’s Breezy yep yep yep and everything’s cotic my darlings so we are having a meet and greet in New York we’re having a meet and greet in New York and things are falling into place very very quickly we have sponsors already we have brenders already they’re coming in Fast and Furious and 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had a similar story we became friends and I love her so very very very much I wanted to talk about her because I’m traveling to New York I have to look for hotels I’m looking at hotel spaces because I want you guys so very much to stay in the hotels with me for those of you that are traveling from different states she has traveled to over I think 81 countries on her own and she’s amazing she has taught me so much about traveling on my own about how to get cheap tickets and how to get the best tickets the best countries to go to as a woman the best countries to go to for all kinds of things she has so much so much to give she’s a wonderful author she was also seen in Forbes also presented on CNN also Essence magazine us today CNBC she is a force to be reckoned with and her Instagram handle is called the passport abuser how one woman went from being stranded on vacation to earning 1.3 million through her travels she has visited 63 countries by herself and now coaches others on how to travel solo I bring her up also because my cousin who married the most wonderful man she was in university in London she was dating nobody came across her love Channel and she decided to go on a solo trip she’s married now and she just had a baby daughter when I saw her I wept because it was too miraculous for words she met him in Italy I think she was in Milano true to form what happened she went to go and get a little ice cream gelato angel please she got her husband to boot travel I said it in the last episode it is the form of Education you’ll never get in class and by the looks of it you can get much more so my darlings passport abuser why passport abuser because she has abused the passport because the passport was so torn the passport was so abused from traveling going from City to city where hasn’t this child gone she’s living her absolute best life her friends left her in a hotel they guned up on her and then they left her in a hotel she woke up in the morning she was the only one there somehow it give her the strength and she has gone on to travel from City to City to Country to Country I live for her and I wanted to share her with you sometimes I can be a little bit selfish but I was like you know what for me you’re traveling let these ladies out here know because you send me all kinds of messages and you know what travel on your own and if you go with her and I’ll put all of her links and everything down below you will not be sorry you just tell her fulmination and she got you while we on the traveling tip we have the wonderful the absolute fabulous Soul Martin Martin is the son of my beautiful friend Sophie Sophie is a fulmination sister and she told me for me you know I have a wonderful son called Martin Martin came for the meet and greet all the way from Paris a father of twins I meeting twins all over the place I’m 55 I don’t want to have any more children but I promise you if I get pregnant I will have them in the old age of Sarah I don’t mind and so we have wonderful Martin and Martin has the wonderful the most amazing sabali Global Travel now Martin takes care of all of our travel here in this house of Christina of Karen amazing you want a hotel in any country he got you you want to stay in a beautiful apartment maybe you don’t want to stay in a hotel he got you he has booked everything for us and I have only to say thank you Martin and because I am traveling and he’s booking everything for us for the New York trip as well I want to share it for my ladies for those of you that say I’m coming to Paris what’s the best place to stay here there everywhere well Martin is your man I’m coming to London I’m coming to New York I’m going to Los Angeles I’m going to Dubai I’m going to Kilimanjaro I’m going to Thailand I’m going to Nigeria I’m going to Ghana I’m going to South Africa I’m going to Gambia I’m going to Z I’m going to Uganda I’m going to Jamaica Martin is your guy you just tell him fulmination and he’ll know what to do just tell him that you get a fulmination discount he’ll take care of you those are the treats I have for you today you know what’s not funny jillo and ban are all over these social media streets talking about there could be Splitsville something a right something is going on I’m just getting my freshly squeezed lemonade yes something is not right and so everybody’s talking about it and one of you sent me a message and said f me please talk about it and I said I will Mama I’ll talk about it today so this is what God is saying Jennifer Jennifer Jennifer Jennifer Jennifer if this is true I feel I send you my love is the kitchen if this is true I send you my love I truly do Mama S I don’t know what is going on but something has not been right for a minute and it is really unfortunate um I know how much you loved Bane I believe and I know Ashanti has also gotten back with her love she’s also expecting a beautiful baby sometimes it’s not for everybody and I just feel that Jen perhaps you really have to look within yourself and you have to get to know who you are you have been out here in these streets for a half minute and it’s beginning to look apparent and I’m not blaming nobody cuz I don’t know anything for all we know this could be hog wash it could it might not even be anything at all but I do feel that you have struggled this year and you haven’t looked your best this year I live for you I love you we’re the same agage so I respect your hustle like I said you’ve been out here in the streets but I’m a woman’s woman and you see when I when I like a man when I Shimmy Shimmy up to a man I always want to know the woman that he been with your name seek Jennifer Jennifer gave birth to three children barban and she stepped aside and let you take over and I remember those early days when you came back with ban I felt like it was a trap like Jen was kind of smiling to say ah Jennifer you’re back okay please let me move right aside so that you can fall right into this trap Jennifer Gardner is the most non problematic actress celebrity in Hollywood I actually met her I met her because her son or her children were going to a school near where I lived in Santa Monica in 2019 they must have finished by now and the paparazzi was all over them if I find the clip I’ll post it and I said Jenny get into your car take the kids and she and I said and and I said love you and she said I love you too and it was that love you to was thank you for me thank you for letting these Hornets you understand me step to the side so I can take my children from school of whom I don’t want to be you know publicized and I did that I had I think I had Adrien in the stroller and I said it’s a bit much let her be with her kids I loved her instantly and she looked at me I looked at and she said I love you and I appreciated it I said whenever wherever we meet don’t worry go because it wasn’t about CB it was about mother to Mother guys we have the paparazzi in my neighborhood because Jennifer Gardner is here so I’m going to do a little something because I think it’s totally annoying you guys should leave her alone you should be ashamed of yourself she’s a mother first I don’t care you should leave her alone I’m going to spoil the whole thing you should leave her alone you should you should you shouldn’t do that I’m a mother too Jennifer get into your car and go I love you bye thank you I love you too out I bring that up Jennifer because the ban of the early 2000s is still the B of today and for all the reasons that Jennifer said I’m done B I’m done and I love you I wanted to stay right up in here for the kids but I need to have my own peace space sanity mental health you ran up in there because he came back perhap because you were jilted you felt I have to come back to this relationship Ben has looked miserable from the gate you have explained it to me that he doesn’t like the Paparazzi I understand aola does not like people it’s a miracle that he got me a is a very shy person but you can ask any fulmination that came out from my meet and greet over 300 last month he was there all day in full support talking speaking laughing taking pictures even made a speech it’s amazing how opposite we are but when we’re together o and with Adrien forget it but outside of that that’s just not who he is and you know what I love respect and I protect him himself and Adrian Adrian is the same way because I tell the nanny take pictures of him in this in the uh playground so that I can just see him make sure d da camera he’s out of there I think that Jennifer you’re in love with the idea of love and not the reality of what everyday Love Takes because that part is very hard it’s very difficult it’s a step and repeat and sometimes it’s about responsibilities taking care of the family going to work doing this that and the third hold on B now apparently is living in another house you’re looking at apartments that could be for work that could be for projects that really doesn’t mean or say anything the thing is I think that you’ve just had a rough ride this year and that could be also just you know what you’re having a rough ride for a woman that has been out here in these streets for literally 30 years and you’ve sailed through pretty much okay then one year is not so bad with the didy Saga I can understand that and then you had the documentaries and then you had the films the most beautiful love story never told the thing is that we’ve heard this love story and there are bigger better love stories than yours this really necessarily is not love story that anybody really wanted to know because 20 years have passed so the time when you were hot things have changed people have moved on Jennifer and so I think it was a situation where it’s been forced and stuffed down the throat I also noticed when you know Ben was making fun and he was talking about how you playing yourself and you’re 28 at that time let somebody else play that part should have played that part it speaks more about you than anything else that you’re not prepared to let anything go that it has to be your way when a wiser older Auntie Jan fond said uh Jennifer what are you trying to prove who are you trying to prove it to that was your cue you didn’t see it it flew right over your head and you filmed it recorded it and put it in part of the documentary you should have really listened to what she said who are you trying to prove it to why are you trying to prove please make a point of something that nobody really cares and I can understand how it could be exhausting forb somebody who is thinking about drinking every minute of the day he said it right there but he’s trying to stay sober and in in his sobriety he now has this additional to deal with it can be a lot that’s what I’m saying Jen maybe take time out time out and enjoy yourself and eat all of the garlic bread that you can you don’t have to be the tiniest sexiest human being to dat you don’t take time out I do it for myself quiet as it’s kept I live and love working out I eat healthy 99.999% of the time but every once in a while do you know what I sit I play with a we go out all day into the park I eat whatever he’s eating I laugh I kick back I don’t work out that day I don’t have my phone nothing I just kick back whatever it is I’ll deal with it tomorrow or the day after or the day after that or next week and I come back refreshed do I think you’re breaking up I think that you will fight tooth and nail to hold this facade that you’re the happy person on top of a bridge I really do believe because that’s you but how healthy is that to continue to hold this glass that is almost empty the longer I hold on to it the heavier it becomes until after a point it begins to travel the aches and the pains to the arm and then it begins to hurt the shoulders this side of the body before it transfers to the next side of the body and what is that it’s affecting everything it’s affecting me as much as I want to hold on to this I have to drop it I have to let it go you like to have the idea of I’m married I’m successful I have the children I have the house I have the fabulous career I am number one in music and in film and in dance it cannot happen to you all the time and you have to pave way for somebody else to come and have a wonderful career why because that’s life because you will never be number one all the time we all have something nobody has everything but you know I’ve come to realize that just peace yourself enjoy your life and do what makes you happy and you have to think of other people as well and perhaps Ben is is there putting on some Li some lip gloss Ben is there trying to be happy and he’s not maybe he’s had enough you were a co-chair at the med Gala that’s big for you Ben wasn’t there apparently he was doing the accountant too interesting I know that if Ben wanted to be there he would have been there but he was like nah you know what let me pass on that and then the children it’s like sliding doors at this point you know you have to think of your children you have to think of his children how many stepdads are we going to have it’s not good for their psyche you have to think of the children at this teenage age yes think of yourself Jennifer and think why am I making making the same mistakes hoping for a different result you know that’s all I can tell you my darling that’s all I can tell you I’m very sorry to hear it I didn’t think much of it when you married him again I didn’t I loved all of the 5 10 wedding dresses you wore but I’ve said said it many times on this channel the wedding is fabulous the wedding is Fun the marriage it’s something else and I don’t think you have understood what marriage is I don’t think so Jennifer and I think that you’re expecting too much and you think that marriage is supposed to be abnc let me show you the ring this time it’s a green ring because the first time he proposed it was pink and all of these you know accessories that go along with a relationship but it’s not the relationship itself I don’t think that you have been able to Center yourself to know who you are all the way and truly be that and you will almost cry because you have to go into uncomfortable spaces places but once you dust everything out sweep everything out clean house you’re reborn and you really know who you are I love you my darling Jennifer I do I love you I think that you are quite fabulous if anything at all in being fabulous and I know people are out there saying you can’t sing you can’t dance you can’t act you can’t keep a marriage but I know you live for that fashion you’re good with that fashion you’re good with the fitness you really are because that we’ve seen perhaps go down that path of fashion and fitness because your tickets are selling online for $10 your tickets have gone from $7,000 to $10 online Ticket Master I think I saw it I said couldn’t be but it was true take a break mama if I were you cancel the tour it’s not really important what’s important is you you are the driving force you are the driver on the the bus and you have to stay away from yes people and people that really really and truly will tell you like it is they don’t even necessarily have to like you or be your friend but they’re honest enough to tell you Jennifer this ain’t it I wish you the best mama okay all right Darlings do not forget to like to subscribe to hit the notification button and I will see you what I’ll see you sooner than later all of my love ohy [Music]

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  1. It's troubling…Ben reached out to her this time…he literally jumped ship from Alex Rodriguez and married ben…all the years they were apart??? They are different people…they loved each other…ok…what was the rush to marry…they should have spent time together, talked, waited…their children are grown..
    And as a new Yorker, I worked for a music label and movie company…and it is true – she is rude, mean and treated people poorly…she cannot be alone..they both need to be with people who are not in the business…

  2. I am not getting myself tangled up in possible gossip. But what I would comment on Fumi is your point about Jennifer as a person: she is a Leo! What can I say, that is how they are! They can't see past their ego long enough to appreciate what they're putting another person through. And yes, they thrive on having yes people around them! I believe it's because they're scared of their own reflection. I mean, Ben may have his own issues (nobody is perfect right?). But if you love someone and you know they got a problem, you don't create a situation where they feel to do the thing they're already struggling to abstain from. SMH…I feel sorry for them both!

  3. All Jennifer is doing is running in circles. When you're not grateful for the blessings and everything that you have, those blessings are taken for granted. No matter how much more you have and accomplish, it'll never be enough, and you'll continue to search endlessly but will never be satisfied or happy. And then suddenly, one day you'll realize life has gone by and all along whatever was you were looking for, was right there in front of you. 🙈🙉🙊

  4. Hi Mrs Fumi, I like your style on point!
    She's is very stubborn and she think she knows everything better than anyone!
    She has to enjoy her kids, time pass, and before she knows they adults! It's going to be to late, what more she wants? Materials money is not all in life! 🤔🤷! I'm from the Caribbean first time I see your video, greetings and blessings! 🙏

  5. Both women married an alcoholic. You can’t make people change. I knew Ben got back with JLo on the rebound. This is sad for everyone involved.

  6. The caftan is fabulous! I don’t know and won’t until I see it if J Lo & Ben are divorcing. They are both very fickle? I do know that I’ve never cared for him. He cheated on her the first time around. The first time around the two of them did an interview with Diana Sawyer and J Lo was preparing a traditional Latin meal and when asked by Diane about whether he cared for either her cooking or the cuisine he answered positively while very clearly rolling his 🙄 eyes. I did not care for it and as a Latina felt it was a tad bit racist. Not too long after that he cheated, called off the wedding, and went on to marry Jennifer Garner.

  7. Fumo I just started following your wisdom and I do enjoy all your videos. I just wanted to know where are you from. Were you born in London?? I want you to know I’m following your fabulous advice especially how to eat healthy. I send you a big hug from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷! Love you!🥰 ❤❤

  8. Perhaps she IS thinking of HERSELF!
    A SUCCESSFUL marriage is not about Self completely!
    It's a lot about the person you marry.
    U have made the life about self but when u marry u r to love your neighbor as yourself.
    Your neighbor is whomever your standing or sitting next to.
    When u marry your closest neighbor is your MARRIAGE MATE!!
    And you should love that person AS YOURSELF.
    As u have cherished yourself before marriage now you cherish your mate. As you tried to make yourself first now you share that position. In fact that person , your mate in marriage is to be AS important if not more because you would be willing to give your life for them!!
    Oh yes Tjough it may never be asked of you to do it's just that NOBLE of a love you should have got your mate,,!!
    And that is the ULTIMATE
    So if that's what you owed to them then anything else should be easier to do for your marriage mate,!
    U are not just living to make just yourself comfortable. Just to make yourself look good in the public eye. Just to make yourself happy.
    You are to direct that energy to your closest neighbor- your marriage mate.
    It,'s not just Happy wife Happy marriage.
    It goes the other way also Happy husband Happy marriage.
    HE STRIVES TO MAKE YOU HAPPY AND YOU STRIVE TO MAKE HIM HAPPY
    The GOOSE SND THE GANDER SYNDROME.
    It CANNOT WORK well any other way

  9. I get emotional thinking about Shenquilla, too. I often pray for her family and all who love her. I can't imagine having something like this happen to my child and then for no one to be held accountable.😢

  10. Her awful movie.. She wrote it -directed it and paid for it against Bens advice. She lucked out when Netflix took over. I think her main reason for making it was to let Gardner know that Ben held onto all their love letters from before ,DURING , and after Garners marriage . She is a sick one.

  11. IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DIDDYS MESS THEN, HE TRULY DOES NOT LOVE HER, HE WOULD STAND BY HER IN ANY CIRCUMSTANCE!! HE'S A FAIRWEATHER HUSBAND!!

  12. She loves the stardom and the lifestyle. Ben isn't into it and I think that's what ruined it the first time. She doesn't know how to do low key. I knew it wouldn't last 😔

  13. Well I think you were bang on Fumi. I agree with the age comment. I'm in my 40'ss and yes, every year the body feels different. I felt embarrassed for her with that cane, struggling to move. May God spare the rest of us from having heart ache Amen!

  14. I think you so right about Jennifer, chasing fame and I don't know what else and she don't even see that Ben is unhappy with all that facade, trying to stay sober

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