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    Cindy Bi, a venture capitalist, hired a surrogate to have a baby, when she suffered a miscarriage, Bi set out to destroy her life: "The Baby Died. Whose Fault Is It?. When her son died in utero, a venture capitalist went to extremes to punish her surrogate." - Article by The Wire.
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    Cindy Bi, a venture capitalist, hired a surrogate to have a baby, when she suffered a miscarriage, Bi set out to destroy her life: “The Baby Died. Whose Fault Is It?. When her son died in utero, a venture capitalist went to extremes to punish her surrogate.” – Article by The Wire.

    The article is behind a paywall so i tried to screenshot the most important parts.

    https://www.wired.com/story/the-baby-died-whose-fault-is-it-surrogate-pregnancy/?utm_brand=wired&utm_social-type=owned&utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=aud-dev

    This link also has it for free, it didnt work for me but it might work for you

    https://archive.ph/SssTh

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    2. Honest_Salamander247 on

      Maybe she should have taken the risk herself then she could put herself in jail for murder since that’s what she wants for the surrogate. (Ed)

    6. papamajada on

      Surrogacy is the one feminist issue I havr completely changed my mind about. I dont care if Im called evil or a radical or whatever, and I still see lots of people talk about getting a surrogate as an ok or even “feminist win” thing

      Nobody should be able to “purchase” a human being as a fucking incubator.

    7. LostSharpieCap on

      We need to have a mental health conversation in American society about people in tech and venture firms. Clearly they are not well.

    8. GrayHairLikeClaire on

      Cindy Bi is a terrifying sort of person. It’s so clear that she only sees other people as commodities, that she saw her own children as trophies and tokens of a successful life. She terrorized Smith after Smith experienced a horrifyingly traumatic miscarriage, rather than seeing that they were both in mourning. She made incredibly racist and sexist assumptions about how Smith was using her body. SHE SENT A PHOTO OF HER DEAD SON TO SMITH’S CHILD.

      And her “good” surrogate? The one who successfully carried Bi’s other child to term? She had to have a FULL HYSTERECTOMY SO SHE WOULDN’T DIE. Her body is forever changed because of Bi’s selfishness, especially her not disclosing the gestational issues that come from her and her husband’s genetic backgrounds. The woman who carried Bi’s daughter can never ever have another child, whether her own or someone else’s, because of Cindy Bi. And she seems to have no remorse or even understanding of that horror show.

    11. venuslovemenotchain on

      This is fucking haunting.

      If anyone asks me why I am very morally conflicted on surrogacy, I should just send them this article.

      PS: Cindy, if you’re reading this, you’re a ghoul and your focus on ruining a person’s life instead of, oh I dont know, PARENTING YOUR LIVING CHILD, is why people in your life probably steer clear of you.

      Also the fact you expect everyone else to follow a contract and court orders while you get to call yours toothless is peak narcissism. Get some help and get some friends who will actually hold you accountable. And may your husband grow a spine. Good lord.

    12. an-inevitable-end on

      As soon as I saw the words “venture capitalist” I knew this couldn’t be good.

    14. GlassPomoerium on

      This story was published three days ago and Bi’s girlboss Linkedin profile is still up, says a lot about her priorities.

      PS: OP the article was in Wired, a tech publication which doesn’t involve drug dealers in Baltimore (as far as we know).

    16. candidu66 on

      She doesn’t seem to understand the basics of pregnancy, she thought the baby should be tall because the surrogate was……???

    20. pellnell on

      I’ve been obsessed with this story since I read it the other day. She is so unhinged and dangerous, and obsessed with having a white baby. She’s constantly posting about her daughter having blonde hair and light eyes. It reminds me of my own mom who confessed to my sister that sometimes she looks in the mirror and is surprised she’s not white. Cindy Bi needs serious help. I hope she never gets another surrogate, and I sincerely wish healing for her previous surrogates. I can’t imagine the trauma that her first GC experienced. Pregnancy is a life-threatening condition. I had complications with my child and am grateful that we are both here and safe. Fuck these assholes who think they’re just renting a womb and not putting the GC at serious risk.

    21. swanfaerie88 on

      This whole article is ROTTED. Cindy Bi is an evil and cruel person and while I’m sure it’s a nightmare to lose a baby, what kind of person would act the way she does?? Enraged for the surrogate 

    22. icantstillbedrunkat5 on

      “The second surrogacy was easy” and she nearly died and had to have an emergency hysterectomy. She also became convinced that Smith had a stillbirth and nearly died on purpose because a psychic told her she was “having rough sex with a black man.” Jaw dropping shit, women are just incubators to these people with their mental racist beliefs.

    24. Virginia-Girl88 on

      I read the whole thing. How horrific. I feel so bad for the surrogate. What an awful and traumatic experience

    26. FuckSakez on

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      She doesn’t deserve to grow her family when she treats the women that enabled this so inhumanly. She is a morally bankrupt ghoul. She is actually ignorant and vengeful.

      Fuck her for eternity. My only sympathies lie with her surrogates. No money is enough compensation for their hurt and pain dealing with her and her equally terrible husband.

    27. Traditional_Maybe_80 on

      I normally don’t say this about people, but this is a whole sociopath. This was solidified for me when I reached the part where she talked about how the second surrogate pregnancy worked perfectly—in reality, the surrogate ended up having an emergency hysterectomy. Sending the picture of her dead son to the child of the surrogate was also sickening.

      And all of this craziness was fueled also by psychics telling her that the surrogate put the fetus at risk by her behavior (like having rough sex with a Black man).

    28. snipsnap987 on

      ugh and using a bible quote to try to justify her harassment of the surrogate? no love like christian love

    29. salonpasss on

      Anything that starts with venture capitalist is never going to end well.

      Plus the fact that she implanted the only male embryo tells me everything I need to know.

    31. Guilty_Dream8050 on

      Please tell me I somehow misread that she sent a picture of the baby’s body to a seven year old?

    32. noakai on

      This lady is also obsessed with her babies being “white” despite her being Asian, there’s the quote above about the stillborn baby looking white like his dad and then her twitter is her gushing about her “blonde Asian baby” that she has right now. I pray for any child saddled with this disaster as a mother.

    35. AdCurious8750 on

      LMAO, that insane woman put two women through nightmare pregnancies all to hire a nanny. Absolutely crazy.

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