I’m very happy for her. I’m grateful that I could do that for her. From the beginning the doctors told me, it’s a donation. There are too many rumors. I’ve never said anything
Posted by Maximum_Expert92
I’m very happy for her. I’m grateful that I could do that for her. From the beginning the doctors told me, it’s a donation. There are too many rumors. I’ve never said anything
Posted by Maximum_Expert92
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this is how i know i’m petty as fuck because if i gave someone my organ, i’m getting a wedding invitation
jokes aside, i just wanna say… this entire situation was really fucked up from the doctors. they told selena that francia was a match before they told francia and selena called her on facetime saying “you’re a match!”
she probably would’ve donated anyway but it feels like they took that choice away from her, i duno
francia should’ve been told first in confidentiality. her patient rights were violated
It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t agree with “the rumours” just that she didn’t publicly state “I take issue with XYZ.” In fact it sounds like she had to learn to cope with the fact that she made a donation and it wasn’t treated with respect. She’s basically saying, “I have enough class not to spread crap around to the media, I donated my kidney, it’s gone, it’s done.” Nothing more or less really.
As long as she’s fine with it, it’s none of our business
If you donated the cash equivalent of an organ to a place like St. Jude’s you would definitely be entitled to having a say where that money goes.
Francia is way classier than me, because I would be telling the whole world how I felt about xyz.
It was beyond shady for the doctors to tell Selena that she was a match before telling Francia herself.
At the same time, I don’t think that Selena owes her anything besides an apology for that situation. Don’t give your friend a kidney because you expect to be friends forever. People grow apart and nothing can prevent that
this feels like a very polite PR answer and i’m bummed she has to be put in this position
The concept of donating something and telling the recipient how to use it will never sit right with me. I don’t care if she’s a billionaire or if she’s homeless. If you chose to give it, it’s now theirs to do what they want.
They will not leave this woman alone.
She’s said plenty of times that she felt pressured into giving the kidney away (HIPAA was broken for sure), but that she’s made her peace with her decision. Even if she’s just lying to get the media to back off… why hound her for literal YEARS now? Let her fucking live.
It’s totally possible this is how she really feels and that’s great. It’s also impossible to ignore that if she publicly acknowledged feeling any other type of way she’d be attacked my millions of people.
The truth of the matter is that the internet loves bringing this up as a way to drag Selena for the sole purpose of doing just that. Most of the time they don’t even use Francia’s name.
Ultimately, shit happens and friendships end regardless of what people have done for one another. In this situation it especially sucks, but neither are wrong for growing apart and in that way, it’s not surprising that Francia didn’t get an invite to the wedding of someone she’s no longer friends with.
As someone who works in fundraising, let me tell you, there are a LOT of people who want to know what happened with their dollar and they want the little children to be grateful. MF’ers make me sick.