"Don't wear that because then a man is going to sexualize your body and it's your fault."



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    1. JennaElizabethAdams on

      This is a really well thought response. You can tell it got to her. While I can see both sides of the story, she should be able to wear what she wants and not get backlash for it.

    2. OriginalSchmidt1 on

      Yeah, women need to stop being blamed for the behavior and thoughts of men.

    3. GildedWhimsy on

      I still can’t believe people were actually criticizing her for wearing babydoll dresses, like wtf 😭 

    4. Yup, my thoughts exactly. It’s not like she’s dressing up like Lolita- it’s just a dress! I love babydoll dresses. Olivia is a grown ass woman. Her wearing a dress isn’t sexualizing babies or whatever people were saying.

    5. browsinbowser on

      Idk how to say this nicely but my biggest problem with her babydoll dresses is I’ve never seen her wear a really cute one. Like this flowery dress in the vid looks old school nightey, and the one in the Versailles vid was boring beige and baby blue. 

      I’ve seen better baby doll dresses, and tho she really likes the style idk if it fits her, she doesn’t look that tall but she is leggy

    6. I feel like we’re seeing such discourse about what the pop girls are wearing a lot these days and it kinda feels like we’ve regressed a bit. Like, the way people talk about what the Katseye girls wears makes me so uncomfortable. It doesn’t really feel like any of the pop girls can win because everyone assumes they’re sexualizing themselves for male attention.

    7. boobookittyfuwk on

      I get what she’s saying and I agree but I dont understand what she meant when she said. Normalize pedophilia. What was that all about.

      Thanks.

    8. marioisaneggplant on

      From a fashion POV, because Olivia makes a good point here, is that babydoll dresses were popularized during the punk and grunge era as counter culture that’s juxtaposed by the messy aesthetic of Courtney love and Kathleen hannah. Like chain smoking, Smokey eyeliner, messy unkept hair, heavily tatted, etc.

      Where Olivia misses in the aesthetic is she looks TOO clean that it looses the point on why it was more impactful when punk/grunge/rebelgrrrl predecessors wore them.

      Edit: I’m getting some downvotes but I urge those to research the rebel grrrl fashion history, specifically “kinderwhore”. There’s a [Bazaar article on this very topic with Olivia.](https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/art-books-music/a71284349/olivia-rodrigo-babydoll-history-riotgrrl/)

      Below is a good quote on the message of the aesthetic:

      The babydoll returned with a vengeance in the 1990s as female rockers paired vintage dresses from Goodwill with loads of red lipstick, bleached blonde hair, torn stockings, plastic barrettes, and Mary Janes. Known as “kinderwhore”—a term attributed to British music journalist Everett True and Babes in Toyland’s Kat Bjelland—the aesthetic emerged from the look Bjelland and Hole’s Courtney Love originated as roommates in Portland, and functioned as a subversive gesture. It sought to pervert and reclaim the fetishization of youth by the patriarchy by turning the archetype of the innocent and fragile young girl into a wicked and powerful creature who wields an electric guitar and screams.

      Now Olivia makes an excellent point about her wearing whatever she wants, but on the other hand the messaging and history of why rebel grrls were wearing those dresses, with Olivia using Courtney and Kathleen, as examples is not there in Olivia’s aesthetic. But also, maybe she doesn’t want the messy look, that’s okay too. Just highlighting that the messaging can get disjointed with the two examples she used.

      Edit 2: it’s Kathleen! Not Katherine.

    9. Unique_Criticism3703 on

      yup yup yup she said it perfectly!!! its really ironic tho cause this thing low-key started with her fans who started a smear campaign against Sabrina for wearing baby doll dresses last year

    10. This response makes no sense.

      First, the [designers of her vintage looks](https://www.nytimes.com/1994/03/27/style/runways-robbing-the-cradle.html) themselves acknowledge that they look like little girl’s clothing.

      Second, she said she was inspired by Courtney Love et. al. How is that possible without wearing looks inspired by little girls as well?

      Third, the issue wasn’t the babydolls alone. No one commented when her album cover came out. It was behaving sexually in them during her spotify concert and showing off her bloomers underneath that started the discourse.

    11. Comic_Book_Reader on

      Maybe it’s the fact that I’ve become more of a bitter and cynical grump over the last year but I feel like stuff like this is the embodiment of, in the words of Peter Griffin, “Oh my god, who. The hell. *Cares*?”, with that exact intonation.

    12. I am 36 and have a couple doll style dresses, I love them, I wanted to get into Lolita style dresses too (is that how you say in English?), no I don’t mean to infantize myself, I just found them to be so damn cute

    13. nothanksthesequel on

      it must be especially alarming to have this public discussion around your adult body when you’ve been in the public eye since your early teens. like if they talk about me like this now, what were they thinking when they *actually* had access to my image as a child?

      i think we’ve become very comfortable commenting on women lately for “the sake of children” for just about any sin we perceive. what they wear, who they date, their perceived health, so on and so forth. it’s like the new culturally acceptable way for tearing women down or bullying people for doing something we just don’t like, and the bullying is justified because we have a grand moral reasoning behind it.

    14. Biggest nothing burger since Sydney Sweeney’s jeans. I swear a lot of these celebrity “controversies” are mostly bots talking to each other on X. Her music is heavily inspired by 90s alt rock. She dresses like a lot of 90s alt rock stars. I can’t imagine anyone in real life being upset about this.

    15. I like Olivia but the picture of the babydoll used as example  in the video doesn’t help her case at all because not only is ugly, is also very childlike with the tiny ribbons and square desing. She also lift her skirt showing her matching undies, so I dont know if people are really to blame about sexualizing her in this context. 
      Is a shame that women are constantly being put under a microscope about her outfits ( ariana grande was critized for the same thing) but we cant play dumb an ignore the implications of the asthetic they chose with their team for the album. Someone must have said something but they went with it anyways 

    16. theykilledcassandra on

      I get all of her points, but comparing her look in babydolls to the kinderwhore look of the 90’s doesn’t equate. Courtney Love and Kathleen Hanna weren’t wearing them because they were “cute” or “cool”. They were worn with a distinct message and weren’t paired with the clean girl look. They looked messy and grungier than Olivia by pairing the dresses with red lipsticks and messy eye makeup and torn stockings.

    17. The fact that she is wearing babydoll dresses is not the problem it’s the fact of how the dresses were designed it was a top and then shorts at that point it is not a dress

    18. sprinklesadded on

      Babydoll dresses are cute, and people deserve to wear cute things without people being creepy.

    19. People really need to get jobs and touch grass. Screens are ruining us all. Leave women tf alone

    20. iwouldiwerethybird on

      can anyone give me an actual good reason why she can’t wear whatever the fuck she wants to? it doesn’t matter that she isn’t “messy” enough, she’s wearing clothing she wants to wear who gives a shit?

    21. therealdanhill on

      The other way to look at it is the reaction isn’t because pedophilia is normalized, it’s because an aversion to things evoking or adjacent to pedophilia is justifiably normalized.

      We recognize things that go into that area and it makes us uncomfortable because we really hate pedos.