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She does look 28, sheās got that young-old face and had it since 12. Having said that she does look good ofc but I am not sure why she gets so much elevation from gen z
Never clicked so fast. Thank you Shallon for covering this topic!
I will never be convinced it's a good idea to get married before, like, 28. Coupled up? Yes! Moving in together? Sure, if you really think that's helpful for you both. Even kids – yes, if you really believe you're ready for that… it will mature you quickly… but marriage is something else. I don't know about laws in other countries but here in Australia legal divorce takes a minimum of 18 months to be fully finalized. There is absolutely no reason for anyone under 28 to have to go through that unnecessarily; breaking up is hard enough, especially when you're young. Kids change the ballgame, so it's not comparable. Divorce however should just be a breakup if there's nothing else tethering your still very young life to that person.
@shallonlester. Can I just say, as a Muslim woman who follows the teachings of the religion, in that a relationship should only be explored in a marriage, Iāve definitely experienced the undeniable benefits of marrying young. Namely, no baggage, minimal heart ache and disappointment and definitely having sex with the person you know will wake up next to you the next morning is a comfortable conviction. My closest friend, married her husband at 20. He himself was only 21. 7 years on, theyāre still very much in love and happy. Each to their own though ofc. ā¤ļø
There is no formulae for anything in life , as long as she's not getting abused or manipulated by the guy she's good .
I'm also glad someone from Hollywood is not partying and doing drugs like they're dying tomorrow at 19
Also I'd be very interested in your take on Leonardo DiCaprio's inability to date above 25!
I don't know. I'm not static in countries I want to live, jobs I want to try. But I'm static in private life and especially in relationships with friends and partners. The point of my life is adventures and charity. My main characteristic is curiosity. But I prefer same companions alongside. That's why marriage didn't scare me and I felt ready.
Iām just gonna say itā¦ people shouldnāt get married before their brains are done developing. š¤·š½āāļø
Good for her! Young women donāt gain much from going through dozens of men.
The mental and physical damage is typically WAY more unhealthy than marrying a man who loves you.
I was way more mature at 19 than 90% of the people I know who are 30-50!
People wonāt respect her choice but theyāll respect and accept almost anything else.
when are you uploading the part two of the taylor/joe video š it got cut off
Hello Shallon! I think your Taylor Joe video cut off at the end and didnāt continue, or was it just meeš ā¤
I got engaged at 23 and married at 25, but by that point Iād been with my partner for 11 years and lived with him for 7. I would say weāre the exception not the rule because our dynamic works for us, and I donāt think Iād recommend taking this path to anyone. My husband and I now say we wish weād met each other 10 years later, we wouldnāt have had half the issues we had if we were just older
I get Kylie Jenner vibes with this move to āmarryā. Millie can afford to marry young because when you are that rich and famous at 19, there is not much you canāt do. Itās like Kylie with her baby. She gets the nannies, the hype of being a young mum, āhow cool, how cute ā and very little of responsibilities of the real world that come with that. Makes me feel Millie is doing it, probably unconsciously, for a secondary gain because how ācool and cuteā would that be . Sheās got it āallā
Shallon what happened to the Taylor/Joe video? Where is the rest haha
I still want the rest of the Taylor Swift vid
I think it is all down to the individual and their personality. I got married a month after my 17th birthday to a 20 year old. The thing is you are not the same person at 30 that you were at 17. By the time I hit 30 and realised the problems I had 2 children and felt I should see things through. I stuck with my husband for 50 years although it was hard going, with maturity you both develop different interests and ideals. When we both retired the gulf between us became glaringly obvious because we were together a lot more. In contrast my daughter married at 30 and was quickly divorced, I think she wasn't prepared to bend to things she didn't like, she was more confident at 30 and left the marriage. What's it all about?
Thought that was taylor swift ex for a second ! Wonder what's with all the doubles… hmmmm
And Taylor's ex looks like taylor swift but a male version
This isn't true anymore is it? All women have careers now if they are married or not. Marriage only is left back in the 70s 80s etc. Very few stay at home moms these days.
Its not like that if if if you marry the right person.
How to be more eloquent. I'm always impressed by how you manage to talk for 30 minutes without any cuts and still make sense the whole time. ā¤ļø
You know what's ironic? That 12 and 13 year olds are allowed to permanently and irreversible change their bodies by taking puberty blockers and undergoing other medical procedures, but 19 is too early to be getting married!
They are both young, but I'm sorry shouldn't it be their life, their choice?
Ladies, always keep in mind that being married to a man or having kids has a toll on YOU and never him. Explore your talents, wants and needs, travel, study, have some money and a way out. The world isn't sunshine and rainbows. A multi-millionaire celebrity is not like you and me and her choice will have no toll on her personal life, she can leave anytime she wants. Be safe out there.
i met my current partner at 30 and weve been together for two years, we were completely different people when we were 18 and i dont think we would have liked each other if we had met then as we were each struggling with our own mental health/teenage angst/family issues. Everyone has their own path.
First of all. Jonās son? Nice grab. Iām a kid of the 80s and 90s. Great choice. But. Still too young to be married. My opinion only. And opinions are like assholes, everyone has one š.
Oh my gosh I got married at 19, 21 atm ā¦ I love my husband and son but wtf was I thinking?
I know what I was thinking I wanted a distraction and a way out of dealing with my own life and issues.
I got married at 23 but me and my husband always talk about it in terms of being an exception to the rule. We had the same vision and the same level of maturity. Weāre very happy but itās definitely not for everyone.
If I was as successful as Millie Bobby Brown, I'd get married too!
I was engaged at 18 or 19 and married a few years after. We were together for 13 years before we divorced amicably. I donāt consider it a failureā¦he was and is a lovely person who was and is very good to me. I was very young, but I canāt say that it was a mistake or that I stunted my own growth. My friends who are 35+ and havenāt married yet, have just had different struggles. They didnāt seem any more or less happyā¦these things really depend on many factors.
I think the problem is we look at the various choices and paths in front of us and we try to find one thatās devoid of pain and struggle and the truth is there are none. This is life no matter what we do. There is no sure shot-no perfect way to know that this is 100% rightā¦and I think if you actually think that about your life, youāre in a bit of denial.
In my opinion, Millie will be fine.
Itās interesting bc I didnāt think I was religious/v traditional b4 watching this vid. Haha But yeah, I do believe in fate/soulmates, and for religious reasons, I donāt believe in sex b4 marriage. Also, I truly hate dating. Not bc the rest of my life is chaotic but because I genuinely donāt find it fun to get led on or lead others on. And I get jealous easily, so I need exclusivity. Idk. I think bc Iām super traditionally feminine, it works for me. However, I do def. see ur point about maintaining hobbies and work for yourself still.
Did they even go through one single crisis together?! Did they figure out how to communicate while not being in the honeymoon stage and feeling everything is fantastic and new? I mean itās easy for people to jump into an early engagement without really knowing themselves, the other person and how they fully work as a couple- when theyāre still in the āeverything feels fantasticā phase.
Itās one thing to be in love at 19 years old and for the first time experience a proper adult relationship and enjoy it, but that doesnāt mean this is the person you might want to wake up next to and do the i portsnt things in life with 46 years down the road (especuially with teen relationship in the backpack that were, by the sounds of it, really broken).
Iāll give them a few years before reality hits them and they will probably move on. I mean when she starts digging around in her mental health and taps into all the dysfunction she experienced from her childhood years in Hollywood and onwards and coocoo and boundary less parents, will he be able to deal with those breakdowns? Because that will be part of their upcoming marriage package. He probably experienced emotional neglect from having a parent who was at a high demand publically (doubt heās an exeption to that rule). Something tells me infatuation and dysfuctin is driving this early engagement descision.
I saw they were engaged. In a few different articles. I was wondering what he did. It only says he Job Von Jovi's son.
Nothing elseš
Shallon, what's up with the Taylor Swift video? It cuts off abruptly.