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31 Comments
I don’t think you have to actually say anything. Let’s them figure it out slowly..
Sometimes a man will wait months and still ghost after he got what he wanted. I say wait but not too long tbh.
i guess shallon likes the juiced up look 😭
you look really good in this video
You look amazing ❤
A high value man, not a f boy? LMAO. All high value men are f boys….
I don't find him attractive…..but I could see Jim being very attractive depending on his personality….but I doubt it…
nah i absolutely need this cooter ate
1st of all if your man isn't worshiping your VJ then he's not for you. 2nd if you're not getting oral at least once a week then he's not the one. Love yourself and your body ❤❤
I slept with this last guy after 2 months and 3 dates. Worst sexual experience of my life 😂 He was obsessed with sports and checking his phone group chats with the guys. What an asshole. His D game was horrible and how rude to check your phone right after sex😅 ( 🚩🚩🚩that it took 3 MONTHS to get to the third date)
Shallon, can you do a video on beauty procedures you’ve had done/recommend (like fillers, Botox, teeth)? I know you said you got your lip filler dissolved a while back and I am just curious because you look amazing!
On date #2, my boyfriend made it VERY CLEAR he wanted to be exclusive. I still did not go all the way until date #6.
We now live together and are about to celebrate 2 years.❤
Wow Shallon thank you for your honesty. You are a rock star.
your best video yet!!! 👏👏👏👏 this should be shown at all wait until marriage talks 🙌
😢 21:40
The glow up tho 👏 👏 👏
You don’t sleep with a man until he’s in love with you.
You always ask the silent questions and I love you for that
❤ I agree
Wait this is so problematic!!!! Women are more than sex omg!!!!! That’s what he’s worried about!!! What a character!!!!!!!!! How bout get to know her more and don’t pressure her to give in with a time limit what the fuck! Run taylor run!!!!!
You are amazing! I just saw your channel and You have nailed it. I just subscribed and will share Your channel. I’m a 70 year old woman and please keep educating women and men. Much love and blessings to You.
SO WOMEN CAN ONLY BE TOLERATED FOR 3 DAYS WITH THE ONLY INTENTION FOR SEX AND IF THEY DONT GIVE IT THEYRE OUT??! HOW DO WE AS A SOCIETY LET PEOPLE HAVE THIS “RULE”
You look extra glammed today 🥰
My first boyfriend never went down, and honestly I didnt know what I was missing. But years after he apologized to me because he was young and stupid
It's there a swelling under Shallon's eye?
Imo someone's boundaries are their own. That goes for both genders. Some people have certain sensory issues and it's not always that they're selfish. And I would only want my partner to go as far as they're comfortable and it be a good experience. And there's nothing wrong with that it doesn't determine a person's value one way or the other.
Like a guy can’t wait a little while. My guy is the 1% who doesn’t want sec at all. It’s becoming a deal breaker and I think he knows. Everything else is perfect. For context he’s 50. I’m 43. And he lives 15 hours away. Been together since covid. He does everything for me. Except 🍆
It is painful shallon and I totally get it I love uu😭❤️ But boundaries are it and we need to do what’s best for us.
Now that I'm older. I wouldnt agree if I were still in my 20s but now in my 30s, a mom and edging closer to 40 soon (maybe LOL) ..I would have to say OH and date from an ex-husband who cheated on me after being his rock on a marine base for years….. I would have to say with all of my data that I've taken, is-It's easier to trust a woman if she seems she overcame her promiscuity era (not the same as a sluttyseason LOL) or already went through that phase and season of her life and just-Matured learned took data down and grew past and above it..- because then you don't have to worry about so many Possible Variables in the relationship that you two will have as friends or whatever. Ive had relations with both sexs just one semi relation-ship with a female when I was 23, it was a nice experience, she gotba little over baring and my experimenting ending there but we're still really really good friends, she could call me now and Id jump on a plane and be there just like 15 years ago lol🤗💕🫂❤❤❤Good vid Shall✌️🙏💕✨️
Excellent video, Shallon! Thank you for this advice! ❤
It’s absolutely a red flag if a guy doesn’t like to do it / is grossed out by it. Esp if he wants it in return