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Megan Fox said boys are draining during an interview at Coachella, seemingly dissing her ex fiancee Machine Gun Kelly. I’ll tell you how to stop being as immature and insane as Megan and how to find a quality man!

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welcome back shig
Gators Megan Fox I mean first of all
Coachella Coachella was this weekend and
it’s also next weekend because God has
abandoned us and every every douchy
celeb is out right you know it’s it’s
not
like it’s a douche Fest it is literally
a douche Fest I have not been to
Coachella which I’m surprised about
because I am a douche and so it seems
like very much up my alley I remember
one time though I was flying from New
York to LA I was going to go home and
see my family and it was the same
weekend as Coachella and so everyone on
the plane was from Coachella and it was
it was like the Flight of the douches
and I mean first all the overhead space
was for hats everyone in their like
whack ass like like douche hat was was
taking up the bin space and I looked
around and I’m like honestly if this
plane crashed it would be fine like we
would be doing the world a favor I will
sacrifice myself if I have to go down
with the ship it was the who’s who of
shut the [ __ ] up anyway it’s gella and
Megan Fox was there and she was asked
about how can girls have a hot girl
summer and boy oh
boy she is the bitterest bunny
imaginable what’s up with Megan Fox and
Machine Gun Kelly we need to talk about
them I have owed you guys a video on
them I just like forget and then they
they’ll pop back up in the news and I’m
like
H what is happening like there are a
couple that is on one hand so bizarre
like they’re an odd fit to me in a lot
of ways they’re so like visually stemmy
and bizarre I’m like H you’re going to
trigger a seizure but then you scratch
the surface and you’re like wait a
minute I see a lot of myself in this
couple or maybe you see your friend and
her boyfriend in this couple there’s a
lot to unpack here we’re going to go
through it and talk about
basically how to stop being insane
how to stop being
insane and how to just grow the [ __ ]
up how to grow the [ __ ] up because guess
who’s on this journey right now it is I
it is I I know I’m like 500 years old
but that is the point growing up doesn’t
actually just happen it usually takes a
lot of work just like losing weight
mostly doesn’t just magically happen
almost nothing good in life magically
happens the things that do magically
happen are very often very bad so we’re
GNA break it down I’m gon to tell you
how to avoid Megan’s mistakes and if you
seem to be like addicted to guys like
MGK who are draining or maybe if you’re
the draining one we’re going to talk
about it okay but first don’t forget
Southern California girlies come to my
Meetup next Saturday April 20th in
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and you’re in SoCal come down but listen
more than anything this is a chance to
make friends I grew up in Southern
California and I live there after
graduating college and it is really hard
to make friends
it’s hard to make friends most places
honestly and so that’s the big thing I
want people to get out of these meetups
I mean obviously come hang with me
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Fox okay so we got a [ __ ] how far back
do we need to go with this all
right so Megan and Machine Gun Kelly
which I mean just right there you can’t
take the dude seriously right I think he
is a bad
rapper I woke up this morning and I’ve
didn’t feel good I
just he’s not he’s not my white rapper
of choice okay I am ride or die for GE
easy GE e also looks like my ex-husband
and so I just have so I have so much
love for GE easy he’s so stylish he’s so
polite and that’s just like like he’s
like Frank Sinatra I [ __ ] love him
anyway so Megan and MGK
is 37 MGK is 33 they’re adults they’re
adults they’re full ass grown adults and
they are acting like they just finished
their shifts at Hot Topic I mean what
the [ __ ] is with these two so Megan was
married for like a decade to Brian
Austin Green Bag is his initials bag guy
from 902 and0 they have three kids and I
have always said because we’ve done
videos on MGK Megan before that she was
like for lack of a better word she’s
having a midlife crisis you know she was
a wife and a mom pretty much put her
career on the Shelf to do that and when
that relationship ended she’s like [ __ ]
it I’m going full crazy I’m going full
like I’m dying my hair getting my tits
redone I’m getting more tattoos and
she’s always been nuts like she’s just
one of these like weird bird people
she’s she’s nuts and she’s been allowed
to get away with that because she is so
beautiful I do not recommend in any way
shape or form emulating anything that
Megan Fox
does Because unless you look precisely
like Megan Fox good luck cuz guys are
just like oh yeah cool but she gets to
be a little too crazy even sometimes so
her and MGK partnered up and it seemed
like their relationship has always just
been based on insane
intensity just intensity and that desire
to feel something like I don’t know if
they’ve said this but I feel like maybe
I it wouldn’t be out of the realm of
conception for them to be like we cut
each other and drink each other’s blood
it’s very like Angel Ena and Billy Bob
and
listen I get
it I 100% get her desire to like feel
alive and to sort of make up for lost
time I mean she settled down really
young and she missed the chance she
missed those [ __ ] times you know and
just the figuring it out times which
last a while I was very much still
figuring things out like well into my
30s and I was running wild through my
20s I was very productive I did a lot I
was very accomplished but like I was
living off snorted Aderall and skinny
vanilla
lattes and everything in my life kind of
kind of reflected that you know I was
living this very like Gossip Girl on
steroids life it was amazing but I I got
that out of my system and I feel like
I’ve matured slowly which we’ll talk
about but almost in the right order and
I think she maybe feels like she missed
out on that which a lot of young moms
and love young wives do
she’s still so young though 37 girl
you’re so young and she’s a smoke so
whatever but I think she was really
drawn towards this like hyper
Technicolor intensity thing with MGK and
I think they love bombed each other and
it always struck me is interesting that
these two got engaged because you know
they’re like we’re we’re alternative and
we’re wild and we’re like fairy Forest
people and like I’m a nymph and he’s a
God and you’re like what the [ __ ] is
happening and they’re like let’s do the
most traditional thing known to man
whiches get
married you know it it’s always
interesting to me that people who are
like we’re so alt it’s like are you
because you’re doing the
most Catholic like Orthodox thing you
can do which is Mary under the eyes of
the law and under God like how Okay so
alternative all right well that didn’t
go well things like this they tend to
burn out and
she she recently talked about where she
stands with MGK she went on the caller
daddy podcast and gave the biggest
[ __ ] non-answer I’ve ever heard of in
my
life so Alex um Cooper who runs call her
daddy first of all Megan talked about
her plastic surgery which like thank you
and she said she was gatekeeping one
thing that she did she’s like because I
think she said something like it’s not
all that common I bet it was vag related
what do you think it
was I mean right vag related and
whatever don’t you don’t need to talk
about anything you’re doing with your
body I’m a big believer if you’re going
to talk about it don’t lie but don’t
feel like you need to talk about it I
like if I had a facelift or something I
don’t know that I’d tell anybody you
don’t have to it’s your body okay so
Alex was like so where do you stand with
MGK because they they ended their
engagement just about a month ago so
Megan said this what I’ve learned from
being in this relationship is that it’s
not for public consumption so I think as
of now I don’t have a comment on the
status of the relation ship per
se that
doesn’t sound
good it kind of sounds like she doesn’t
even
know you know what I mean listen you
call off an engagement you pretty much
call off a relationship I just had this
conversation with someone that like I
had a lot of trepidation about getting
married and I’m like it’s not like you
see in the movies where you’re like we
decided not to you break off an
engagement you break things off entirely
I mean you humiliate them Man by the way
he’s gotten down on one knee he has
given you a ring families are involved
it’s a whole thing it is almost
impossible like oh let’s just go back to
dating not really not
really so I find it hard to believe that
they’re just like back to bfgf because
you you have peered over that Cliff of
commitment and you’re like nope so why
the [ __ ] are you still dating you want
to be permanent boyfriend
girlfriend I mean yeah for some people
that works I think that works if you
don’t already take steps towards more
Commitment if you do and one or both of
you realizes that’s too much how do you
go back to that like how do you it’s
like oh okay you like me but this much
not this much oh okay that really
doesn’t last for that long you you
cannot keep that up knowing what you
have seen and knowing the commitment
again one or both of you is not
into I don’t know for some people people
tell me in the comments if you’ve done
that and you’re like no we decided to
just stay dating forever okay tell me
how that works and I’m not saying that
it doesn’t work if you just never want
to get married of course it does look at
I mean there’s so many couples who never
marry and I think that’s amazing and
healthy but it’s if you try to do it and
then you go back uh that’s where things
get it’s like melting
cheese you can let it congeal back it’s
never really going to look like it used
to cross the bridge and so their weird
ass relationship status who
knows he seems to be off the [ __ ]
deep end he said he started smoking
again because life’s been weird
lately how articulate and then he
tattooed his entire body he tattooed his
entire like I don’t blackout tattoos and
then wrote this rap about it lately my
thoughts been eating me alive laid in
the bed thinking maybe the hate will
finally go away if I’m not alive oh
rhyming alive with
alive wish I didn’t listen just like I
wish they would understand me one time I
had a breakdown and tatted my entire
body except one line everything’s just
fine I don’t know if that’s the melody
to the song but I do know what he sounds
like when he raps and I got to say I
nailed it I I’m sorry I nailed it like
everything he raps about is how no one
understands him and I swear if I was
Megan I would be like ah just pulling my
[ __ ] hair out like is there anything
more insulting than the person who
you’re giving all of your time and
energy to is like no one understands me
it’s like oh my God are
you I actually I actually know you
better than you know yourself I am so
aware of your complexes and what your
mom did and how it it form this like I
am I can almost see through you I’m
surprised I can’t see your kidney
function right now nobody gets me
everyone [ __ ] gets you okay you’re
not my heart goes out to her and you
know what Megan seems to be pretty over
this also so she was at and here we come
to the beginning Coachella she was a
Coachella where dignity goes to die and
she’s got blue
hair oh brother and so she was asked by
E to give advice to single ladies who
plan to have a hot girl
summer and she said I’m probably not the
best person to ask she said just learn a
skill or develop a hobby and do not
waste your energy on boys all they’re
going to do is drain
you just move on invest in yourself and
then weirder
still Machine Gun Kelly
himself commented on this Instagram post
wrote in all caps
preach and people are like bro she’s
talking about you like are you and by
the way mg K now goes by MGK he’s no
longer a machine gun K he is MGK he
changed his
name Megan I got to say I feel you
draining is exactly how MGK sounds but
you know what girl you seem pretty
[ __ ] draining too both of you seem
draining you seem like you’re in this
Mutual drain Loop literally like
swirling the drain down together like
this man is tattooing his whole body
he’s picking up smoking at 33 H
interesting H hobby to cultivate and
he’s changing his name he doesn’t seem
to know who he is and all of his songs
seem to kind of like point to that oh
I’m so alone I want to die nobody gets
me who am I I’m 33 years old I’m a
father of a teenager everything in the
world’s great for me I get to [ __ ] Megan
Fox life is
horrible are you okay you want to look
into some medication I don’t know or
maybe just shut
up it’s unattractive I’m sorry but emo
guys I I can’t even believe I’m going to
say this because I was the the queen of
emo and I don’t mean like in the privacy
of my own home I was literally referred
to as the Paris Hilton of hipsters when
I was on the emo scene like in New York
City literally hanging with fall Fallout
Boy The Academy is Taking Back
Sunday of Songs written about me okay my
God all of okay I so many so many
stories and now I’m like the idea of an
emo man makes me want to my vagina shut
forever forever and I used to love them
I mean I love them so much like I said
songs I got songs about
me I think as we grow
up all of that drama is exactly what
Megan says it’s draining it’s
draining and like I said growing up
doesn’t always just happen when I have
found that it that it does that I’ve
like taken these sort of quantum leaps
of maturity they are precipitated by so
much exhaustion ju I burn out like I
will hit a wall and be like I don’t care
okay you know what [ __ ] you [ __ ] you
you’re fine [ __ ] everybody I don’t care
I can’t do this anymore and so it’s not
like it’s purposeful Choice
driven growing up where I’m like you
know what hold on let me pause and look
at the areas of my life that are not
working and be proactive no no no I was
reactive and you know I guess the ends
justifies the means if you grow up and
stand up for yourself because you’re so
bedraggled and so tired of like your
friends always deciding where you go to
dinner and part of being an adult is
expressing yourself and saying I
actually don’t like toas I hate toas I
really don’t want to go there can we go
someplace
else but what if you didn’t have to
reach the burnout point and what if you
don’t have to go ballistic in the group
text over top us what if you don’t have
to freak the [ __ ] out on your boyfriend
and usually incinerate your relationship
which is what I have spent my entire
life doing what if you could bring
things up again proactively and then
feel a modum of control over how you
express yourself and therefore have more
control about the outcomes what if how
does this
happen if you’re in the chalant trage
you know that we are on the Journey of
patience of P patience so I this is life
there is one Dragon to slay after the
next you know it’s it’s um for me it was
boredom I hated to be bored like I
couldn’t I couldn’t take it and part of
the reason I moved to Montana was it’s
like I need to slow my life down I need
to slow down my central nervous system
and I need to maybe learn to embrace
boredom I need to get good and bored and
if I have to move to a small town to do
that okay and I have like I have really
learned to sit with my
feelings to feel what I feel even if
it’s icky and understand that it will
pass and so the next Journey that I’m
on is
patience patience is the foundation of a
life that is not insane patience is the
foundation of sanity and
dignity why because when you force
yourself to be
patient my God so much stuff comes up
it’s a nightmare
it’s a nightmare you know a lot of times
anxiety is impatience sometimes it isn’t
sometimes I think a lot a huge aspect of
anxiety is self-absorption what are they
going to think about me and they’re
going to talk about me and what’s going
to happen to me me me me me me me go
volunteer to a [ __ ] soup kitchen okay
and then call your friends and [ __ ]
about the text that you got from a guy
that didn’t include an emoji
and maybe go investigate real problems
see if it helps I don’t know maybe it
won’t maybe it will so that I think is
the root of some anxiety and some of it
is yeah frustration I’m not getting what
I want when I want it and how does that
lead to anxiety because anxiety I
believe is a lack of feeling control you
know and in the we’ve talked about this
like I don’t get anxiety from external
things like a plane’s going to crash a a
car accident you know we’re going to go
to war like I don’t I’m not anxious
about those things or like even what are
people going to to think about me I’m
anxious about things like in my own life
I am anxious about my own ability to
control things and my like my own
behavior sometimes and that boils down a
lot to patience that boils down a lot to
patience because think about it say
you’re at a restaurant right and you’re
like where is our food it has been 40
minutes we just ordered wings and
burgers where is our food you get you
get impatient and you get frustrated and
you might even get anxious like I don’t
do I need to go up there I mean I don’t
I don’t know well why is it taking so
long it takes four minutes to drop fries
I worked in a restaurant you’re starting
to freak out because you don’t feel like
you have any control and you’re
desperately looking for like okay well I
can talk to the hostess I can talk to
the manager I can I can go back there
and start cooking the food myself your
mind is running through options to make
you feel in
control and all of that comes from
impatience and what impatience patience
comes down to is the concept of should
it comes down to
timelines I should have my food 20
minutes ago I’m not saying that if you
have a timeline you’re automatically
incorrect a lot of timelines are
completely appropriate that is
appropriate you should have had your
food 20 minutes ago you’re right and
your impatience is Justified and your
frustration is Justified but is it
making you feel
good there are so many emotions we have
that are 100% justifiable and the
actions that result from those emotions
are justifiable the scorched Earth text
the [ __ ] ass comment back to your
friend of me going into the kitchen and
flipping over the fry thing because
where the [ __ ] your fries right you get
it you could argue that defense in
court are these feelings making you feel
good and more importantly more
importantly because listen not
everything is going to make us feel good
are you getting the outcomes that you
want I dare you to go back in the
kitchen in a restaurant and see if
you’re ever allowed back in that
establishment sending those scorched
Earth texts I don’t have to tell you how
that turns out I have years and years
and years of data and the person I’m
dating now I really like I really like
and he moves at a different pace than I
do and you know what pace I move
at Megan Fox I moveing Megan Fox’s Pace
I moveing Megan Fox’s pace I move at
Megan Fox’s
Pace maybe that’s why I date 22 year
olds because they’re more likely to move
at that pace too and they want intensity
also because they’re young and they want
to just gobble life up you know and I
also date them because I can control
them and I can manipulate them I’m good
at it I know exactly what to say I know
exactly how to do
it and
now I’m dealing with an adult
a complicated one a wonderful
one and who is not going to be rushed
not going to be manipulated not going to
be
hustled and all my little tricks that I
try he’s like stop it stop he drags my
ass to Hell about it and I’m
like this is so annoying and so I have I
have nothing I’m stripped of all of my
weaponry and all that’s
left is patience no I’m not saying that
this is 100% going to work
out I mean you know we hope it we always
hope our relationships go some sort of
distance or something like
that but I’ve realized like God put this
person in front of me for a reason and
hopefully that reason is true love you
know of course we always hope that but I
think also a reason is like all right
girl you think you got it all figured
out you think you know this you think
you know that here’s a challenge it’s
called
patience not everything gets to come on
your schedule but it should why let’s
break down the shoulds because again how
this relates to Megan Fox is When We
crave that intensity that like crazy
intensity the drama I believe I believe
we can boil this down to massive
impatience a desire for control but yet
also feeling out of control you know
it’s like we want
control and KN it’s it’s a weird it’s a
weird Rat’s Nest but I do think the
antidote to it is patience I mean think
about it in terms of sleeping with
someone it’s hard it’s really hard to
wait it’s really hard to wait but when
you’re like no no no but I want to I
want to sleep with them I want to sleep
with them to slay the dragon of of
impatience we have to go beyond but I
want it but I want my food now but I
want it I want the promotion now I
should have it I want to see him
tomorrow he should want to see
me first of all with respect no [ __ ] you
want it like take that off the table
that’s that’s obvious like of course of
course you want it that is yeah you have
to look a little deeper it’s not the
issue of I want it it’s why is waiting
so intolerable and let’s look at like
sleeping with a guy too soon why is it
intolerable intolerable
for you to
wait well I want him okay I’m a horny
[ __ ] yeah I mean listen okay yes that’s
part of it that is part of it but if you
have the data because we are data driven
people we are not animals okay we’re not
just like humping anything that walks by
we’re we’re creatures of choice and
rationality if you have all of this data
that okay sleeping with a guy on the
first or second date beep B Boop carry
the one those relationships never worked
out well it wasn’t wasn’t because of
that how do you know that have you ever
tried to do it
differently well I mean we had fun okay
try it if you have all this data of
correlation perhaps not even causation
but you’re like H whenever this was
present this was the
outcome why would you keep going down
that path and I’m not trying to throw
stones from my glass house we all do
this in every category I order this I
eat it I feel like [ __ ] guess the [ __ ]
what I’m going to order the next time
I’m here that exact same thing yep I’m
going to keep doing it okay why do we
keep doing this and what what emotional
payout are we getting from making these
choices that don’t lead to healthy
outcomes because we are getting some
payout we are and more importantly why
is sitting with something and not
sleeping with them not ordering that not
telling off your boss not sending that
text why is that intolerable
and every person’s answer might be
different you know for some people it’s
like I have to express
myself why because I’m I need to express
myself like this is something that I
deal with you know obviously do nothing
but monologue but it’s like why well
because I I need them to really
understand what’s going on in my heart
why because I want us to be closer
together okay historically how has that
gone though are you you considering your
audience or are you only considering
yourself are you confessing to this
person like they’re a priest or are you
thinking hm how will this message
actually be
received is it going to bring us closer
together or am I being animalistic and
just I hate your dress I hate your
boyfriend and then what is driving that
need to say self-destructive things
what’s driving it why can’t you keep it
in these are the things we need to
examine why can we not cultivate
patience you know what I’m not going to
send that text I’m going to wait till I
see them that might be in a few
days I can’t sit with this feeling
though I can’t sit with not
understanding what’s going on in our
relationship I can’t sit with feeling
like my friend might be mad at me why
not why not I think think even asking
yourself that goes such a long way and
this like I said this is like a journey
this is this is not something that like
you think about it once you’re like oh
it’s because of that I am like slaying
this dragon on the daily on The Daily
and I realized that because I’ve been so
impatient in the past with dating I’ve
been able to pull back and be like I’m
really impatient in every other
category in in all of them I will be
[ __ ] if someone doesn’t respond to my
email fast enough I’m like picking up my
phone where are my friends where are my
friends I’m in line like what are they
doing I am just impatient and it’s like
why
why I think it’s because it makes me
feel like I have no
control it makes me feel like I have no
control why is that
intolerable do I chronically feel like
in my life I have no control do I feel
like if I don’t like hold on to
everything so tight it’s all going to
fall
apart do I fun mentally not trust other
people I don’t know do I not trust
myself [ __ ] you guys this shit’s deep I
want you to take a piece of paper and I
want you to write these things down I
want you to think of when you get your
most impatient like don’t even think
about it on like high level things like
dating or family or work I want you to
think like I’m a Target and if I choose
the wrong line that’s not moving fast
enough I’m
like like why is it because it’s like
well because I’m going to be late for
everything else I have on my schedule
why do you have so many things on your
schedule because everyone expects me to
show up to everything aha oh oh oh now
maybe we’re getting somewhere maybe it’s
I actually don’t have any boundaries
because if I did I wouldn’t have six
things on my schedule every day I’d have
two and so if I was in the wrong line at
Target that’s fine my next appointment
is not for two hours it’s okay but
because I’m overextending myself to show
up to this family dinner and that baby
shower and this study group
then there’s no real time left for me
and what I want there’s no wiggle room I
don’t actually belong to
myself CU I’m
spineless like you see how standing line
at Target can open up this Pandora’s box
of like what does this actually mean
what does this mean so this is the work
I want us to do and it’s this is heavy
stuff this is big [ __ ] this is Big Stuff
okay and that most people don’t they do
they just move through life like a
Berserker war machine I did I 100% did
but are we getting what we want and
that’s what I would tell Megan it’s like
girl you’re and her advice is spoton
reinvest in yourself get a hobby get
another job I don’t know leave boys out
of the equation until you have
cultivated that patience and it sucks
it’s like leave them out of the equation
till you don’t need them and then
they’ll find a way back and that’s when
you’re most magnetic anyway I mean
that’s when you’re you’re most desirable
not that you
can’t you know I don’t know on one hand
it’s like well why should you stop
looking for true love if that’s really
what you
want but remember the dating isn’t 50/50
it’s 100 100 and so if you want someone
who’s going to give you 100% and be that
100 you have to ask yourself are you a
100 have you slayed the dragon of
patience because listen in a marriage in
parenting in a highle corporate job in
any in running your own
business there’s going to be a lot of
patience involved because you won’t
always have control if you want absolute
control stay single don’t have kids um
just dig holes in the backyard is your
job like live off the grid if you if you
are that focused on control there’s a
way to get it it’s just going to cost
you a lot and maybe the Gateway the path
to all of these happy sane calm peaceful
amazing relationships in any category is
paved with
patience maybe so we can talk about this
more let me know what you guys think um
come to my meet up in Southern
California April 20th I would love to
see you guys I’d love to meet you guys
shop take pics do some advice just have
a good old girls night afternoon it’s
going to be great all right and if you
uh like I said if you need some friends
if you need some advice if you want to
talk more about p we’re doing videos on
it this whole week in the chalant trage
come join talk to the other girls I was
really surprised when I made some videos
on it over there I thought people were
going to be like what are you talking
about and girls were like this is
literally me I I am the same way so it
was really risky for me to share this
because I thought people were going to
be like kind of actually sounds like
things aren’t working out in your life
you know that you’re impatient for and
they’re like no I’m totally with you so
it’s a great place to connect and if you
need one-on-one help find me on pass.com
the link is down below all right I’ll
see you next time alligators
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