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00:35 Sophie Guidolin reveals her husband.
09:42 Where are her family and friends slowing her down?
10:46 Sophie wants to be private but keeps dropping breadcrumbs…
03:40 Victoria Devine defends herself breastfeeding in a café.
05:33 Christie Swadling and her fiancé face court.
13:08 The police have lodged the AVO…
18:20 There are different types of AVO’s
07:35 Sarah’s Day has stopped saying she isn’t pregnant…
08:17 When is Rachel Dillon & Tobi Pearce’s wedding?
08:38 Tammy Hembrow, Matt Zukowski & Reece Hawkins together in Bali.
19:08 Has Matt removed his “Gen” tattoo? He has a new “Tammy” tattoo.
11:41 Ned Lester and Kairo Calvitto spotted together in the USA.
12:10 How old are you?
15:40 My neighbour says hi, lost dog story…
18:40 Maybe the dog went over the fence?
12:30 Have you heard about Abbie Chatfield and Keli Holiday?
20:00 Keli’s real name is Adam Hyde. Abbie Chatfield also goes by a different name…
15:03 Lucy Jackson soft launching a new man…
17:00 Are their any influencers you wish were more famous? There isn’t much diversity…
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introduce myself first so hi I’m Amber
from influencer updates on Instagram and
tonight I’m going to be telling you
about the three biggest Australian
influence and news stories of the week
so the first one is Sophie guedin so she
has officially I guess officially
announced her marriage um the second
story is Victoria Divine so she has
called out a woman for shaming her for
breastfeeding in a cafe and the third
story is Christy swaddling and her
fiance price are going to court for an
intervention order which yeah more on
that soon all right so I’ll start with
the biggest update so Sophie gedin so
people are messaging me like crazy about
this one saying is this fake what is
this like what is going on but I’ve been
posting to subscribers about this since
the 7th of July I mean 7th of April so
about 2 weeks now so on the 7th of April
I think it was the 6th of April actually
I did a live and somebody said that the
guy that she had shown this like the
tattoo she’d shown just his tattoo in
one of her YouTube videos someone
messaged me saying his name is Nicholas
white and okay that was what I published
in subscribers that his name is Nicholas
white and then somebody else messaged me
from a burner account saying I know
Nicholas white and he actually got
married to Sophie gelin recently
overseas and this made sense because
Sophie had posted the day before saying
that she’d been overseas nine times in
the last 3 weeks or something something
crazy like that maybe 6
weeks and also I looked up with a
followers like someone was messaging me
about this looking up the legalities of
getting married again post divorce so
you need to be separated for 13 months
in Australia and we looked at the date
that her and Andrew fera had announced
their separation and it was like early
to mid a no early to mid-march last year
so that would mean they could get
married early April this year cuz that
would be 13 months but yes she did also
releasee a new YouTube video where she
refers to him as husband they are both
wearing wedding rings on their wedding
finger she’s posted photos of that this
week of both of them wearing them and
the final bit of
evidence what was the final bit of
evidence I think that’s it so yeah
they’re wearing Rings she called him
husband somebody messaged me saying that
they know them and they secretly got
married and yeah she oh the final bit of
evidence
is that somebody asked her are you
married in a Q&A recently and she got
all defensive and said like you know
this is something that involves children
I don’t want to talk about my marriage
anymore I’ve learned the hard way or
something like that and she won’t be
talking about it and I was like that’s
because she is married and she doesn’t
want to talk about it anymore so it
seems that she’s going to keep this
marriage a lot more private than her
previous ones she has been married four
times now I believe and she did grow up
in a very religious household I don’t
know if she still holds those Rel
religious values but apparently she was
married at 16 or
17 and that was
like um part of her religion and yeah so
she’s now on her fourth marriage to
Nicholas white who owns Buffalo tribe
programming so that is also like a
fitness and coaching thing so they seem
very well suited in that regard that
they would both have that in common as
of interest and I was also told by the
person who told me they are secretly
married that they met at the Fred Again
concert which was early this year so
they haven’t known each other very long
all right I’m guessing the comments are
going to be going pretty wild about this
one cuz that was a very interesting
ride second update is Victoria Divine so
she was breastfeeding her new baby in a
cafe recently earlier this week and
somebody said to
her what did they say you shouldn’t be
doing that in the middle of the cafe and
she has gone on to say that she is not
afraid of conflict and that she said to
them for the last 10 minutes I’ve had to
watch your husband eat a peanut butter
asay bowl with his mouth wide open and
then be a douche to the waitress so I
don’t think I’m the one who doesn’t know
how to behave in a cafe sit back down so
she’s saying that that is what she said
to the person I don’t know if that was
maybe a bit sensationalized for social
media but good on her if that really did
happen if someone did say that she
shouldn’t be feeding a baby in public in
a feeding venue that is not okay it’s
absolutely not okay that somebody feels
that way let alone says that and I’m
glad that Victoria Divine schooled her
on it so yeah that was a bit of a quick
update but I did get a lot of traction
on my subscribers like everyone seemed
to really resonate with that
post I personally fed my children for
about 2 years total so about 1 year each
and I never got any awkward comments in
public I did find at two events though I
was at two like family sort of parties
and two like two separate older women at
the two different parties said to me
something like oh like you could go feed
your child in the bedroom if you want
this was prior to me feeding so they
were offering me like a private room to
feed my child which obviously was very
nice of them but my opinion was well no
I don’t want to miss out on the party
I’m going to be out here and if anyone
else has a problem with it they can go
to the private room and they can wait
there until I’m done
so yeah nobody seemed to have a problem
with it but yeah I’m sure other people
have had experiences where people do
have a problem with breastfeeding in
public all right so the third update is
Christy swaddling and her fiance so
tattle somebody messaged me this I did
an anonymous Q&A today on my subscribers
and somebody messaged me saying you
haven’t posted Christy swaddling ivoo
against Joel it’s in her tattle thread
he had a criminal matter heard the same
day so I went to the tattle thread that
they were talking about and yes there is
a court case on the 22nd of April at
9:30 a.m.
a constable so a policeman has lodged an
intervention order for Christy swaddling
against Joel price so this means that
the Constable feels that it is necessary
for her to have the intervention order
against her own fiance so there’s no
information on what has happened I don’t
believe this is photoshopped I believe
it is
real but yeah I I also don’t know if
maybe she could say no to the
um intervention order I’m not sure how
that would all work because I don’t
think she would want an intervention
order against her own fiance she’s been
posting apparently she’s been like
talking about him on her stories and
stuff the last few days so it seems that
they are very much still together I also
find that maybe there’s two Christy
squading in Newcastle because she also
had like a bankruptcy court case and she
definitely doesn’t seem bankrupt with
like her movements overseas and like her
lavish spending and things she also
bought a new so I’m not sure what is
going on with her legal status and court
cases but it does seem that they are
still
together obviously if there was
something that he did to her to Warrant
this that is extremely bad and I
wouldn’t want them to be together but
other than that I really love this
couple I think they both seem so
obsessed with each other and they’re so
cute their videos together are just so
funny so this one really shocked me and
yeah it’s really awful if christe is
going through
something so yeah that is the update for
the week all right so I’ll scroll back
and listen to people I mean read
people’s
comments Sarah’s day has stopped
mentioning pregnancy is this a sign that
she is
pregnant probably it probably is um
there has been like a thread on Reddit
where people are speculating based on
her body which I think is kind of gross
but people are speculating based on her
body like they saw some she was in like
a supermarket or something and they saw
like a security camera or something and
they think that based on her body that
she is pregnant mainly because she
normally is super super ripped and she
was just looking relaxed in this photo
but maybe she was just relaxed I’m not
sure but I’m sure she’ll let us know
soon if she
is when is Rachel and Toby’s wedding so
Rachel Dylan and Toby Pierce Kayla
aten’s ex fiance they are currently in
Italy and they are going to be getting
married soon I don’t know when but I
feel like they wouldn’t go over too soon
like maybe in the next week or two I
suppose what do you think about Tammy
with reys together in barley well I mean
I think it’s kind of obvious that Tammy
would see Rees while she’s in barley
like Reese is her ex fiance and the
father of her two older children I think
it’s the main thing that really baffled
me is that she posted it I’m really
surprised she hasn’t been posting
anything about Matt in a few weeks now
since the dming incident where he
messaged another girl on Instagram but
um yeah so she hasn’t been showing Matt
and then on her Snapchat today she was
filming Matt and reys and the kids and
they were all like hanging out together
in barley and she was cracking up
laughing I think she was cracking up
laughing knowing that she was going to
post it and it was going to like go very
viral or something because I don’t know
what else was funny about it but yeah I
think that’s good that he ree is meeting
Matt like he is going to be the
stepfather of his two children so I
imagine he would want to meet Matt and
also it’s really good that their
children get to see their
dad where are her family and friends
slowing her down this is about Sophie
gedin so where are her family and
friends slowing her down it’s not normal
and we don’t want young girls to think
it is this was another thing on my
Anonymous Q&A today like people are
asking what is my opinion on like Tammy
getting engaged so quickly not that she
chose to we proposed to but you know
what’s oh I suppose she is also getting
married quite quickly and also what’s my
opinion on like Sophie gedle and getting
married so quickly and my opinion is I
think that marriage is quite archaic
like it is an archaic tradition why does
it matter if they get married it
literally doesn’t like it’s no different
to being de facto it’s literally just a
legal piece of paper for some archaic
reason and I am married like I I want to
be married and that is for me and my
husband to want but I don’t understand
how it affects FS anybody else I am
living for the wedding content I’m just
really annoyed that we didn’t get to see
Sophie’s wedding content it doesn’t seem
that she’s going to show us either which
yeah that’s really
sad sorry I’m just a bit
thirsty okay it is quite ironic yeah
that Sophie gedin says she wants to be
private and yet she keeps posting us
like little bits of bait H it is very
interesting cuz yeah it seems she
doesn’t want it to be private if she’s
giving us all the
Clues someone’s saying they think it’s a
tactic to get the Daily Mail writing
articles about
her true but I definitely think she is
married it’s there’s just too much proof
that it’s happened sort of
thing advice for the younger generation
go slow with your relationships I mean
these women are 30 plus I think Sophie’s
about 34 and Tammy has just turned 30
it’s not like they’re young I mean
they’re young but you know what I mean
they’re not young and
silly yeah this is Tammy’s third
engagement and Sophie’s fourth marriage
like they know what they’re doing I
would
hope Ned Lester and CYO calvito spotted
in America together both posting in the
same car well isn’t that just a bit
confusing I didn’t know this and I’ve
seen photos of Ned leester and Sam
guggenheimer like cozied up in America
Ned leester is
getting a lot of headlines
recently I hope he’s not playing the two
girls don’t
know somebody’s saying wait you have
children how old are you I am 30 I’m
born in 88 so I’m
30 something 34 I think 35 you lose
track once you hit
30 oh I’ll just screenshot that cuz I’m
going to block that person afterwards
have you heard anything about Abby
Chatfield and Kelly holiday on aby’s
podcast she gushes about how much she
loves him it’s so cute I haven’t heard
much I’ve just heard they are together
like Kelly holiday is from the band
peaking duck and yeah that’s about it
really I mean she has shown that she’s a
peing duck fan for quite a while so it
actually makes sense like now that I
know she’s seeing one of the guys from
it that’s why she’s been giving such
glowing reviews of their music for so
long but yeah that’s all I know sorry
she’s actually quite good at keeping her
relationships private given that she’s
dating people in the public
eye um people are saying stuff about
like the police lodging the intervention
order for Christy swaddling police will
do it on your behalf if they feel there
is a risk but the victim is
scared yeah it’s it’s definitely scary I
mean this is a story I’ve never told
online because it’s just weird but um I
the police actually lodged an
intervention order for me when I was
maybe like 21 yeah I think I was 21 and
I lived in a unit block it was like a
ground level unit block of six units and
I lived in maybe unit three and across
the driveway lived a man on his own and
he I guess harassed me he came to like
visit me and I you know told him to go
away and he wrote me letters and I
called the police like in hysterics and
they came around and then they went and
saw him and they ended up launching an
intervention order but yeah I didn’t I
had to I mean I chose to appear in court
but I didn’t actually speak at all and I
don’t know if I could have cancelled it
but the I think the courts are
very good at handing them out sort of
thing like if if one is lodged they’re
like okay approve like it’s not
something you really have to fight for
if that makes sense like the thing was
the man who did it he said that he
denies the claims but he accepts the
intervention order and apparently that’s
just like a normal thing people do
because they don’t need to admit fault
for the intervention order to go through
so maybe that’s what will happen he
might deny the claims how can he have an
intervention order against his own
fiance I just don’t understand how this
is going to
work but yes someone’s saying here with
31 women un alived this year and 75 last
year ladies do whatever you need to do
to be safe and I definitely agree with
that get an intervention order we have
seen recently that it doesn’t
necessarily help but for some people it
might help so I think that if you want
to do one definitely do one the court
system do not make it
difficult Lucy Jackson soft launching
yes so I’ve been posting that in my
subscribers as well so she’s posted a
few clues in the last few weeks mainly
all we know him has his white T-shirt
elbow guy in the photo she’s posted he’s
always wearing a white T-shirt and he
has white T-shirt elbow guy tattooed
elbow guy he’s got like tattoos on his
elbows she actually showed like detailed
tattoos on his arms so I really feel
like we should be able to guess who he
is he mustn’t be in the public eye
because otherwise we definitely would
have by now with the tattoos but yes I’m
very excited to see who he
is oh my gosh Emily yes that is me that
knocked on your door the other night
someone’s just said to me here I think
you knocked on our door the other night
let me screenshot that with a lost cat
or dog yes so a dog made its way into my
backyard a few few days ago and I don’t
know how it got into the yard we do not
have any access points it’s been like um
dog proofed on the perimeter because my
husband used to have a dog that would
dig and I went to the neighbors looking
for the owner and this girl Emily was
one of the people and then her sister
sky and I did find the owner of the dog
they actually live directly behind us so
yeah I’ve said to them they are going to
have to look from their side and see if
the dog got in somehow from their side
sorry I scroll because a lot of the
comments are like about the same sort of
things or things that I’ve already
spoken
about what else have we got lots of
stuff about Sophie and Christy
swaddling I knew that this would be
crazy everyone loves Sophie gel and
content are there any Aussie influences
you wish were more famous I wish there
was more diversity especially culturally
with influences and I can’t really find
anyone in Aussie that’s outside of the
mold uh is there any anyone I wish was
more famous
oh not really
because I don’t know like if they if I
follow them I follow them it doesn’t
really matter how famous they are if
that makes sense but um yeah I agree
there’s not much cultural diversity in
the like top Australian
influencers and there is if you look
though I think that you need to start
looking if you start with even just like
mainstream ones like the first one that
comes to my head is dedicated lifestyle
so Kate Jones she is diverse in that she
preaches body positivity and she I think
she would call herself plus- size a
plus-size model but like if you start
with someone like that like start with
somebody who has some aspect of
diversity and and then look who they’re
working with and stuff like they
usually will will value diversity and
you could find people that way but yeah
I agree there is a very like specific
mold of Australian
influences okay someone’s saying here
there’s different types of intervention
orders you can have safe contact orders
where you can be together but cannot
perpetrate domestic violence very common
okay I did not know
that but yeah like I said it seems like
they’re very much still together oh
someone’s saying here about the dog it’s
my sister actually she’s saying maybe
the dog went over the fence I guess that
is possible I don’t know what’s on the
other side of the fence maybe there was
something it could climb but the dog was
seriously like this big it was very
small so it definitely wouldn’t be able
to jump unless it’s like a little rat
and can like run up the fence like a rat
would
I wonder if Matt zakowski removed the oh
sorry removed the big tattoo of his
bottom of his last girlfriend I don’t
know if he’s removed um Jen her name
that he had tattooed on his bottom but
he has got a new tattoo of Tammy’s name
so I suppose he kind of had to it’s a
bit awkward if he’s got his ex’s name
but not Tammy’s and Tammy also has his
sorry
says here Sophie to Toba has joined
Sophie Tober from the outspoken podcast
and I’ve accidentally waved at her so
sorry Sophie I’m not meaning to do that
is that a baby crying yes it does sound
like my youngest has woken up amid the
live stream she’s I I don’t know what is
wrong with her she’s just not falling
asleep lately and she’s normally like
such a Perfect Sleeper like we put her
in a bed at 700 and walk out and she
sleeps until 8:00 the next day she has
been saying her teeth are saw so I don’t
know if she’s put it on or if that’s
true yes Kelly holiday so Abby
chatfield’s boyfriend um his real name
is Adam Hyde so he has been known as
Adam Hyde I believe and now he’s
like I don’t know but a lot of people
have been saying to me that his name is
Adam Hyde but I think that you’ll find
most influencers go by names that are
not their real names like even Abby
Chatfield she has said before that LE
like in real life her surname is
different to Chatfield she went back to
go by her mother’s maiden name so yeah
Abby Chatfield is not her real name
either cute that your sister Tunes in
each week yes she is my number one fan
so
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