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are you guys doing I hope that you guys
are doing good I hope that your week has
been going good you know we are at the
end of another week so congratulations
to
us we made it never would have made it
we made it okay
um so let’s talk about friends all right
first and foremost I want to address
something so real house SI of bomic I
wanted to start there right um NECA came
to Dish Nation last week and here’s a
little snippet of how her interview went
I have a lot of positive things going on
and I’m really excited to share with
everyone so I really want you guys to
stay tuned follow me cuz I have some
really big announcements coming up and
that’s all I can say girl you not going
to tell us whether they finded you or
not the stre said you fire well I stay
tuned I have some really big
announcements to have some announcements
so just stay tuned you guys give me a
chance give me a you want me fired is
that what it is it’s not I don’t it’s I
don’t want anything it’s just that’s
what they’re saying that’s what I see
being reported so I wanted to know like
if that’s true you know or if you’re
moving on to another show but you’re
you’re saying for us to just stay tuned
stay tuned you said it five times she
ain’t going to tell us thank you stay
tuned thank you
Brad we’re not going to get the tea you
know some people in the comments for
this nation were like damn like it’s
obvious just didn’t like NECA and it’s
like it’s I don’t dislike the girl I
just my thing is this right before she
came to Dish
Nation the reports were all over the
Internet that she had been fired
allegedly allegedly
allegedly this is all alleged allegedly
she was fired during black women’s what
about your friends month okay and so for
me I’m like okay so why is she coming to
this nation if she’s fired the only
thing I could think of is if she’s fired
and she’s coming on this nation she’s
going to come in detail you know that
she’s fired or she’s going to break the
news you know what I mean like so she
comes on it’s like she didn’t want to
talk and my thing is like don’t come on
a talk show if you’re not going to talk
okay don’t come on a talk show if you’re
not going to talk if you watch the full
interview though she did say that she
filmed a lot of different things and a
lot of things were not shown and I can
relate to that because I’ve did one
season of love and and Hip Hop and I’ve
said that there have been other people
who have gone on shows and said the same
thing right you will shoot for like nine
months and they will pick and choose
what they want to show to fit whatever
narrative that they want to tell and it
was clear that production wanted to
focus on this Shrine [ __ ] and they
wanted to focus on this beef between
NECA and Wendy and it just wasn’t
enjoyable to watch and when she finished
her interview you know I don’t know
somebody said something I was like well
you know nea I really do feel like you
didn’t get a fair chance and she was
like why why did you say that on on why
don’t you say that on camera and it’s
like well you’re not giving me much to
work with like you got to get when you
go on a talk show you have to talk
that’s the whole point talk right and
yes you’re going to promote your
businesses she’s promoting other
businesses but it’s like people want to
talk to you about what happened on the
show so if you don’t give them
anything what do you want me to do like
when I was done with Love & Hip Hop
immediately I started saying I’m not
going back and that was a subject matter
I’m not going back period that’s it I
made it clear so I wasn’t going to be
tiptoeing and [ __ ] footing and [ __ ]
popping and torula and no I’m gonna let
you know I’m not coming back here’s what
I didn’t like Point Blank period you got
to give me something to work with you
know and she wasn’t giving us anything
to work with but stay tuned it’s like
she was doing this like press tour to
tell people stay tuned stay tuned it’s
like girl you didn’t build that type a
platform on the show for people to want
to stay tuned you got to give the people
something give us something to work with
so good luck to her she um did say she’s
starting a dating app and she’s dropping
wine so good luck to her I have nothing
against the girl it’s just if you gonna
come on a talk show talk
talk talk give me something give me
something to work with but speaking of
NECA if you watch the interview she did
kind of touch on this and cuz Gary was
like like well you
know apparently cuz I was asking her
were were were her and Wendy actual
friends before the show I don’t think
that made the edit for Dish Nation
because we I I was like pounding her
with questions um and she said well you
know you heard at the reunion what Andy
said and I wanted to bring that up
because I’m going to talk about this and
I’m going to go into Porsha and Fallon
listen carefully or you just talk a lot
oh are you angry you’re not listening oh
why you angry you see why you why you
hostile towards me I haven’t been
hostile towards you you been lying all
day what you talking
you’re lying I met her at an event foro
the pheno concert I met you in a private
VIP maybe less than 20 people 10 people
sometimes for us if two people have met
a few times in our mind it’s like oh
they know each other they been an event
and so all I was doing I wasn’t shading
all I was doing was responding saying I
know okay that’s it had you been trying
to connect with Wendy to get on to the
show a d my life my husband’s cousin
leth she was aware that Married to
Medicine first reached out to my husband
who then got in contact with me and
wanted me on their show she’s like oh my
gosh you’re here in the DMV I have
another Nigerian EO sister you guys have
to meet they weren’t
friends they were not friends right and
Wendy didn’t know her and like she said
here she never said that Wendy knew her
or that they were friends she had met
Wendy right
and so I here’s the thing here’s what I
personally feel when it comes to Wendy I
feel like Wendy would have preferred to
bring on somebody who was truly her
friend on the show I think that she
would have prefer that instead of being
told oh just bring this girl on the show
because when it comes to These reality
shows a lot of times you’ll see a
certain person will bring somebody on
the show and then they end up beef you
know why cuz they weren’t really friends
they weren’t really friends and then I
stand by my initial thought which which
I said in my last video where I was
talking about R house
astoic I feel like the moment Wendy told
them people they were not
friends production saw that as an
opening for beef I really think that
they egged it on I really do and they
centered neca’s storyline way too much
on Wendy’s cuz we didn’t see anything
from
NECA we didn’t see anything from
NECA we didn’t see anything else we got
just a little moment of IVF but other
than that we didn’t see anything right
so it just felt like as someone who’s
been through this I already know the
formula they wanted to focus on this
drama and the thing with uh the
housewives they don’t give these new
Housewives a real fight and chance a lot
of the times like you really have to you
got to s sink or swim and if you sink
they’re not bringing you back so you
know even though NECA is telling us to
stay tuned I don’t think they’re
bringing her back I don’t think she made
a big enough Splash and I do think that
the shrine thing just it didn’t leave a
good taste in anybody’s mouth and even
though she’s the one who brought it to
the
table uh the production
company really sunk their teeth into
that like they really sunk their teeth
into a xenophobia BC story line for
entertainment and it just wasn’t
entertainment it didn’t hit the story
line didn’t hit it didn’t do good for
anybody it just made this season
miserable to watch it was just a
miserable season to watch but I wanted
to to mention this because I wanted to
go ahead and lead into Fallon and um and
Porsche but again just bringing this
back up it goes to show you again when
and NECA were not friends yes they had
met each other yes they had been about
at events together uh Wendy uh uh um
Andy said that production thought oh
well they’re both Nigerian so let’s just
bring her in oh we’ve seen them on
pictures together or we’ve seen that
they’ve been in events together let’s
just bring her in instead of doing their
research to find out if these girls
really were friends like they didn’t do
the research they didn’t do the vetting
and actually I kind of feel like
NECA might have mentioned the shrine to
them while they were interviewing her
and they feel like oh that’s a good beef
story right there let’s bring her in
that’s what I feel but they’ll never own
up to that um but anyway let’s go into
Fallon and Porsha so we know that Fallon
recently did an interview with baller
alert and there’s a clip from it that’s
going viral um where she talks about the
fact that Dennis was the one who
revealed to her that Porsha and Simon
were sleeping together a whole year
before they got together that was
definitely aoy because they were already
together for they were dating for a
year while I was happily married and
that came from Dennis’s mouth now did
her ex-husband know about that yeah
Dennis told her Dennis is the one who
told me he was like he came to me he
apologized um we met up at crew one
night and he was like you know he wanted
to talk to me about business or whatever
but I guess it was bothering him and he
apologized for everything he was like
Fallon I thought you knew the whole time
that they were [ __ ] around he’s at
all of Atlanta knew he was like how’d
you miss that I said I wasn’t allowed
out like that so why would I which makes
sense now um but yeah so he was like I’m
so sorry he was like I now it makes me
look at my baby mama a certain way cuz
she told me the whole time that you knew
about everything you were cool with her
sleeping with Simon so what was you and
Porsha first interaction um our first
one I believe was filming at my house
the pool SE yeah that was the first time
and you didn’t sense anything that was
your first interaction but how did you
know how did she know to come there who
did she know to get there so I was
approached by Housewives a few times by
the time I said yes they asked me who do
you want to be introduced onto the show
with and I said
Porsha not knowing you know she
already was she already allegedly yeah
she she was already yeah for a year
that’s what Den during this time when
y’all did the it was already going
already that’s why when I was like I
went back and watched it because
everybody you know everybody tags me in
all the comments and they’re like B you
need to rewatch it now that you know it
and I and I went and looked at it and
when I said you know oh yeah he we’re
about to do a ring upgrade she was like
oh I was like I sitting there watching
like
[ __ ] how I miss this I was in shock
Dennis is Messy as hell like you don’t
have no hot dogs you supposed to be
putting on the grill or some [ __ ] like
that like why the [ __ ] how the [ __ ] are
you finding so much time in between
putting hot dogs on the grill for you to
be this messy
like go make some hot
dogs go fetch me a hot dog what is going
on
like when is he finding so much time to
be like that messy that’s really messy
to me and then telling Fallon oh you
know it made me look at my baby mama a
way different this is the same dude who
was cheating on porsa when she was
pregnant you are cheating on her when
she was
pregnant about one
back how are you looking at your baby
mama differently you was cheating on the
lady when she was with
child when she was with child you were
cheating on her and now here you are
doing business with the woman who was
married to her now
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husband that Dennis guy like it’s just
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what did Porsha ever see in this man and
then like he’s always in the comments on
the blogs anytime like a Fallon or Simon
like especially a Fallon video comes up
or something with Porsche or Simon like
he is in the comment section like it’s
just
giv see that’s one thing I will say
about my sistant Porsha is a lover girl
I’mma need you to do more research
do more research and I can relate to
that cuz baby one thing about me I’m a
lover girl I’m a Cancer and I’m patient
baby I fall in love in seven business
days or
less okay if you got good credit he got
good money and he got his own place baby
I’m falling in love in five business
days matter of fact take the business
out five days I’m locked in baby I’m
locked in I’m locked in the continents
are meeting I’m locked in I’m lck
I’m seated I’m in love baby I’m in
love I’m in love okay
love never knew I was missing I’m in
love baby I
found
love I Found Love okay I’m
seated and I’m not getting
up okay so I can relate
I can I feel like I’m talking to myself
right now I can relate girl you got to
do do more research this ain’t it next
go around pora do more research this
ain’t it these men are weird and they
love the spotlight a little too much you
got Simon now in pictures and videos
with
shereé it’s so clear what he’s trying to
do he’s trying to get a peach he’s
trying to get a peach off of
you and this upcoming season I I I don’t
see it being a good season for my sister
CU I feel like everybody in Atlanta is
going to come for you they’re gonna come
for you and Simon’s right there leading
them he’s leading the path Simon’s gonna
figure out a way to get in front of them
cameras and especially when you got
somebody like shereé who never had
shereé don’t ever have nothing going on
you got her and Martel you got Martel
and her comments right now Mrs ho the
same [ __ ] who embarrassed her
last season cuz he’s always looking for
TV time shereé is desperate for a
storyline now she’s hanging around with
Simon it’s just uhuh uhuh uh
uh this is not how we get down during
black women’s that’s not your friend
month that’s not how we get
down what about your
friends are they GNA stand there ground
are they going let you again uhuh this
ain’t it this is not it
so anyway going back to that clip Fallon
said her first interaction with
Porsha was when they filmed that damn
pool
scene and if you’ve ever seen that pool
scene everything makes sense
now your home is
beautiful may just have to renew our
vows ring
upgrade you know love
it everything makes sense now just the
awkwardness right
and I don’t know a part of me doesn’t
believe that they were together or they
had been having sex around that time I
don’t see Porsha doing
that but you do see the awkwardness
now and for me the awkwardness is Simon
I feel like the moment Simon saw Porsha
he knew if [ __ ] don’t go down with
Fallon I’m going to sink my teeth into
that girl because he wanted to be on
camera
some of y’all some of y’all in the
comments oh you always going to support
Porsha you only saying that because you
support Porsha I’m telling you Simon is
very thirsty that is a thirsty man all
his actions post this this divorce is
just giving he wants to be on camera he
wants to be on camera and I think Fallon
was his ticket in that didn’t work out
so then he went for
Porsche he wants to be on camera and the
reason why he wants to be on camera when
you think about it now this is a man who
has been trying to get citizenship right
he had one marriage that the government
said was a sham right so being on camera
getting married on camera being on a
show with your wife that is a for sure
way to prove that you’re really
married I think this whole thing was a
scheme that Todd set up for Simon to
come to Pora with the [ __ ] he was
just want to be on
camera he he used Fallon it didn’t work
so then he went to
Porsche and now he’s using shereé and
and what it’s just it’s weird it is so
weird but again they were not friends
these girls were not friends and so it
takes me back to this whole thing which
is he I’ll say this now somebody’s
married somebody’s in a relationship I’m
automatically allergic to you I’m
legally blind I do not see a man that’s
in relationship I do not see a man
that’s married right but again the
narrative has always been oh that’s
[ __ ] up what Porsha did to that lady
knowing that lady was married first of
all Fallon was not sleeping with Simon
Fallon was sleeping with the pool boy
the more more I hear I I I look at
everything I feel like Simon and
Fallon’s relationship was not a real
relationship I think Simon was trying to
get on
television I don’t feel they had a real
Rel ship which is why you have Fallon
[ __ ] the pool
boy okay how are you married to a
multi-millionaire you’re living in this
big mansion but you [ __ ] the law the
guy who comes and mols the lawn raw make
that make sense to
me Fallon and Simon weren’t
[ __ ] if you believe that Simon and
Fallon were [ __ ] you need to get
evaluated
screw your hair back on your shoulders
you’re not seeing things straight I’m
telling you Fallon and Simon were not
[ __ ] they was not [ __ ] which is
why you have Fallon [ __ ] the pool boy
raw they was not together that marriage
was a sham too that marriage was a sham
too and his marriage to pora was a sham
Porsha didn’t know that Porsha didn’t
know that until the blogs uncovered the
fact that he was not a
citizen because even according to
him he came back from out of town and
she surprised him with a
divorce and that was the minute she
found out that he was not a citizen it
was a sham she didn’t know that she was
reca she was reca um but I say all that
to say I I I don’t know I don’t feel
that Porsha owed Fallon anything because
I really don’t think that Fallon and and
Simon were in a marriage marriage I
think it was a sham on both on both
ends I think it was a sham on both ends
I do I don’t think that they were being
sexual with each other I don’t think
they were trying to procreate
anything that was a sham it was a SCH
that toss set up for Simon to get on TV
my personal opinion let me know what you
think okay y let’s go on to the next
friendship that I want to address be
Simone and Megan Ashley now I’ve never
talked about them on my channel uh I
feel like I’ve watched maybe two
episodes
um I remember meeting
Megan I think probably two years ago
Target had an event here in Atlanta and
it was
for H what’s the lady
Tabitha Brown she had like her line
coming out and they had a big like
fashion show for her it was really
really great and I met her there she was
with she was with bee and she was really
really nice and I remember telling bee
like you you’ve got a prize with her
like you’ve got a prize with her now I
always
felt them together um as podcasters it
was it was good I felt though I always
felt
that as someone who’s worked with B
Simone and although we’ve been on Wild
out like in in wild out episodes
together we never became friends like
that like we never conversed with each
other like that
um I think just watching her from afar I
do think that she is someone who is an
Entertainer okay she’s an Entertainer
she’s here to
entertain I always had the the feeling
that Megan was more into Ministry
and when you watch them
together it would feel like there was
this struggle you have be who’s an
Entertainer and you have Megan who’s
really there to spread the gospel and
you see two people trying to meet in the
middle I know for sure that Megan Ashley
are you ready to cry
don’t I feel like I help mine in pretty
well
seeing you go through your darkest times
and seeing you come out of that and
still having so much Faith like that is
something I admire and I strive to be
like that every day you pull me closer
to
God because of you I have given my life
to Christ numerous times over and over
yearning for a relationship with
him I don’t ever want you to doubt what
God already you already know it’s inside
of you and the confidence is going to
come out of you this year and you’re
never going to look back you’re never
not going to have confidence this is the
year that you have it and keep it I just
know for sure I know for sure I know for
sure that God put you in my life to save
me be is an Entertainer B is an
entrepreneur B is a
businesswoman and again Megan is there
for Ministry and I think that that must
have been tough for them to find the
balance in that because now we have both
of them going their separate ways um I
watch dear wifey podcast all the time I
um know La terce um and I saw Megan’s
episode where she kind of talked about
her friendship with beone and here’s
what she had to say I would be remissed
if I didn’t ask you the elephant in the
room uh the question of what happened in
that relationship in your friendship to
be honest um I just think that people
you grow you know and and I I don’t I
don’t know if it’s one specific thing um
I think that you just grow and you
realize you know maybe this this doesn’t
serve me anymore on both sides and so um
you know you just want the best for
people and then you just kind of move on
for whatever God has for your life and
you bless you know whatever they got
going on you just bless them and you
move on how did that feel though from a
cuz I
sucks it felt like a death oh it is it
absolutely does I mean it still feels
like a death you know it sucks it’s not
easy is there times where something
happened you want to pick up the phone
and call your best friend you be like
that don’t you pass that stage yeah no
there there’s none of that but there is
you know it’s grief you know and there’s
stages that come in grief there probably
was a time where I wanted to do that um
I’m not at that place right now um but
you know it’s grief you go through it
you go through the stages of it but I
think more than I think I think more
than my attention being on those things
my attention is on the Lord my attention
isn’t on those things anymore of how I
like making it all about me how I feel
what this felt like what they did to me
what it’s just like my focus is on the
Lord I feel like a week after that you
had B Simone Dro her um trailer for her
podcast that she came out with wait
what’s going on with
Sound Speed C speeding action let’s try
this again okay well what happened with
the other
platform it was not an impulsive
decision I hugged her I said I forgive
you not that you need my forgiveness the
very next day I see her oh my God I saw
a lot of the feedback for the trailer
and some people were saying that it was
shady some people were saying it was
corny and I seen most of the people
saying that it was genius as far as
marketing is concerned and to be honest
I agree with all that I feel that it was
shady let’s just keep it 100 there was
some shade thrown but also it’s a great
marketing strategy because when you look
at someone like B Simone every Venture
that she’s put out there she’s always
done with somebody else right and
unfortunately for her Partnerships have
been to her detriment we saw what
happened with the I think the book or
the the uh the manifesting book where
you know literally it
was literally a ripoff of somebody
else’s work and you know the blame of
that was placed on her partner at the
time I believe it was Ms Skittles um and
you have I mean there’s been other
things but then you have this podcast
which is I think that’s like the second
biggest I’m not going to say fail cuz I
think that the podcast was great and
they were doing big venues they were
doing big numbers they were doing really
really well like I I don’t know it were
me we would had to figure that [ __ ] out
because they were doing very very good
um but again I don’t know the ins and
outs of their relationship um but um
this is another notable fail because
this is an end to something and before
they pulled the plug on their podcast
there was an episode that they released
and there was like a clip that’s been
going around where they kind of talk
about the difficulties that they face
with being friends with each other you
have Megan
who seems to be carrying stuff and be is
like a fixer do you know what I mean
that’s how it that’s how it feels
sometimes yeah and I try to avoid it not
getting on anyone and then it does yeah
and it’s not my intention you know yeah
I you know I don’t I think the thing
like you said something the other day
and I’m like and that’s the whole thing
I’m trying to avoid is that the head
heaviness of who I am I don’t want
anyone to feel that and that’s and it
makes me isolate myself and then in
isolating
myself it’s inevitable that it’s still
heavy like I said I’m trying to say a
lot without going in detail of our text
messages and stuff because I don’t think
that’s necessary or relevant to the
public right now but
um you know I’m solution based and
sometimes it’s like well it’s heavy
[ __ ] I could carry it let’s carry it
like if it’s heavy let’s carry it let’s
go come on you put half on here I’m
going take this half I’m take this half
but I think I I’m right now in this
season like the way we’re carrying it
isn’t working for me it’s not working so
what is a different way to carry it you
might have to take it back right for
right now I might have to go get my mind
right and and figure out a way to become
stronger and come back and help you
again and if you’re carrying it we have
to figure out a way to get it off of you
whether I’m helping you carry it or not
so now you have be who released her new
podcast and is doing really really well
I think the other day I was looking at
podcast chart and she was like in the
top 20 so one thing about be say what
you want about her I really think that
whatever she touches turns into
gold she just needs to find what she’s
really passionate about that’s just my
commentary as somebody watching her from
afar I think that she’s good at many
things but I don’t think she still knows
what her passion is cuz one minute we
see her singing next minute we see her
rapping we see her acting then we see
her podcasting
and as someone who’s multifaceted as
well I still feel like just watching her
I’ve seen somebody who’s done a lot book
tour like you’re doing a lot but I don’t
see any of these things fulfilling her
and that’s just me as someone watching
her from afar I feel she needs to find
what she’s passionate at and not just
attach herself to something just because
it’s going to make money for instance
what happened to the lipsticks what
happened to the
makeup so we’re not going to get another
manifesting Journal that was it just
because that didn’t work out we’re not
going to get another one like you have
to figure out what you are passionate in
I think making money is great making
money is great but when you’re not
passionate about
something it’s going to fail while I
think B Simone really enjoys
podcasting I don’t think she was as
passionate about spreading the gospel as
Megan was or is I don’t think that that
was be’s calling I think that Megan is
someone who is very serious and very
passionate about being a
minister and ministering to people and
speaking God and and God’s word over
people’s lives I really do
and again that’s not me sliding be I
think be loves God but I don’t think
that Megan’s walk was was B Simone’s
walk I think be is more of an
entrepreneur more of an Entertainer
let’s get this this merch let’s tour and
Megan’s really worried about God’s
people you know and if you cannot find
the balance in that it’s going to
cause all types of commotion also too
that last clip that I played where they
were going back and forth about their
friendship Megan comes across as someone
who is always burdened and I remember a
friend of mine
recently
um was it a friend of mine or maybe I
saw a thread somewhere where someone was
saying
how they’re the friend that’s always
going through something and because of
that they they start to see
like a disconnect between them and their
other friends CU they’re always the
friend that’s going through something do
you guys do any of you have any of you
ever experience a friendship
where that person is always going
through something and it’s not just like
everyday stuff it’s like it’s always
something traumatic or always something
that they are deeming as
traumatic how do y’all feel about
friendships like that like
I’m someone who likes low maintenance
friendships in the sense that if we
don’t talk for a minute don’t
automatically assume that I don’t [ __ ]
with you don’t automatically assume that
I’m mad at you don’t automatically
assume that I’m acting different you
know life happens we’re all going
through life right life is a lot a lot
happens in our everyday lives right so
sometimes communicating with our friends
is not
as important as just getting through
life right and I feel like there’s some
friends who will take that extremely
personal versus there are some friends
y’all might not talk for a month or a
couple weeks y’all get on the phone and
it’s like it’s like you guys didn’t miss
a beat y’all didn’t miss a beat it’s
like hey girl y’all keep K because you
know what that’s your friend you know
what I mean but I feel like friends who
take it personal they not your friend
like it’s just given why is everything
always assumed to be something negative
with you just
because I’m over here tending to my life
we have lives people have lives people
have things to tend to and so sometimes
it might take them away from their
attention span when it comes to you it
doesn’t mean that you’re not friends
right Megan kind of comes across like
that someone who’s always
burdened you know always going through
something traumatic whether it be losing
someone whether it be a divorce whether
it be something economic she just she
comes across as someone who’s always
going through something traumatic right
then you have bimon who comes off as
somebody who is very disconnected from
deep feelings very much like okay we
still got a show to do okay we still got
to get on the road okay we still got to
record this podcast okay we still got to
film this
content and I find that sometimes people
like that can be a little offputting as
well because it’s like damn girl
like it’s okay to take the time to feel
something it’s okay to take the time
to
pause pause and process things it’s okay
it’s okay and sometimes people people
like that are just avoidant because they
don’t want to feel things maybe they’ve
experienced traumatic things before and
they don’t want to experience that
anymore they just want to go on and you
know what I mean like maybe they’ll use
their money to mask what they’re really
going through they they’ll use the work
to help mask what they’re really feeling
inside and I feel that b Simone is
somebody that comes across that way and
so when you have these two
personalities if you can’t find the
balance between the
two this is what
happens also I want to say
this doing business with your
friends is not a good
idea especially if you don’t have a
middleman if you have a
middleman and when I say middleman like
whether it be a manager whether it be a
point person whether it be an attorney
whether it be a liazon somebody who is
delegating to the both of you
it’s not a good idea because depending
on who has the more who has the most
money or who has the most nor
notoriety the delegating of
things is going to be imbalanced and
when I look at be and
Megan it’s very clear that the P the
power lied in B Simone’s court and not
Megan’s I believe Megan was her
assistant for years they’ve been best
friends for years but Megan started out
as her assistant okay so to go from my
assistant to now my partner I
wonder if the partnership was
50/50 something tells me it wasn’t
because you’re not about to tell me that
Megan is bringing what B Simone is
bringing
financially you’re not about to tell me
that Megan is bringing what B Simone is
bringing as far as an audience as far as
numbers as far as notoriety as far as
clout there is an imbalance
there okay and when there’s an imbalance
there that can cause some rifting that
can cause some
commotion that can cause folks to feel
like well damn so I don’t matter as much
as you matter damn because I don’t got
this or what what like damn what what
you mean I’m paying for this so just do
this you know what I mean like them
power
dynamics they don’t be working they
don’t be
working that can cause a lot of
commotion in your
friendship and um as someone who I had a
friendship Fallout this year with
someone who we started off as friends
started and I started paying her to do
things for me but then she became like a
day-to-day person for me like I
literally the business that I would get
I would then hire her to kind of be my
leaz on and I would pay her 10% of
whatever I was
getting which is a lot because I’m
paying you like you’re my manager when
literally I’m just bringing you
relationships that I’ve already formed
all you got to do is just delegate
whatever they’re already telling me to
do right and I think
that sometimes you like you have an idea
in your mind as to how these things
should
go and a lot of times that’s just not
how it goes like I like one thing I felt
with her was I felt that she started
really
like being a little too controlling like
well not a little just way too
controlling way too controlling and I
remember even one
time talking to someone at um a magazine
a big magazine and they told me oh so
and so told me that she’s your manager
and I was like what
manag
orware you know what I’m saying
and the the Dynamics and then to be
honest me I’m a very passive aggressive
person and when I feel like you’re not
listening when I feel like you’re not
listening to me or when I feel like
you’re being controlling to me I have my
ways of being very passive aggress very
passive aggress very passive aggressive
and there were just some things that
happened that it was just like yeah no
no there were just things that she would
say that would get back to me and it
just like and instead of me nipping
things in a Bud immediately I think I
let a lot of things Fester but I would
speak up but I felt like she wouldn’t
listen because she was controlling in
her mind it was like well I’m telling
you what to do I know better I you know
I know how this goes and it’s like no
this is my business I’m telling you how
to run this you know what I mean
and so it just sometimes these things
don’t work and I really think that when
you look at B Simone and and Megan uh
Ashley it’s one of those examples where
you know what doing business with your
friends might not always be a good idea
I feel like if you have a liaison in
between y’all I think that it works like
two friends that I know that do really
really
well um Drea and and uh and Lex from
Minds right um they do very very well
they they did very very well on their
own but now when you have them at 85
South you have 85 South who is leading
both right so it’s like it’s not one
person telling the other person or one
person guiding the other person it is
you have an entity and we’re both
working with this entity and they’re
they’re the overseer and so while we are
Partners there is we have Point people
people so everything is not on us every
we’re not burdened with all these
different tasks and I’m not feeling like
I got more tasks than you or you got
more tasks than me it’s an equal burden
for everybody right and so I feel like
when you’re friends and you’re doing
something together and you have a point
person you have a middle person you have
a middle entity it works better okay I
hope I explained that well but anyway I
do feel like that’s a prime example of a
friendship that ended because they did
business
together let me know what you guys think
let me know what you guys think about my
bone and Megan Ashley breakdown let’s
get into this
social Scandal I haven’t done a social
scandal in a minute but I came across
this video of a young lady who realized
that her bestie was not her bestie at
her Besties wedding that she was a
bridesmaid at I can’t be a bridesmaid
anymore because my track record shows
that when I’m a bridesmaid I’m no longer
going to be friends with that person
anymore period And I don’t know what it
is about it but I have the craziest
story and this is why this is why these
relationships have fallen apart so I
grew up with this girl 20 year
friendship she gets married I’m a
bridesmaid and her family is
YT and I was a big part of it I grew up
in the suburb so it is what it is but I
was a big part of her family and um they
were definitely to-do they had money it
was all good but they didn’t flaun it it
wasn’t like that it was very well
accepted into the family and so the
wedding comes and it’s beautiful
everyone’s good and her family is known
for boating and yachting and so for
their tables what they did was they did
a very unique idea and instead of having
numbers they had names of
boats and I don’t know if you have an
idea of where this is going but it’s
going there and so she
had boat names for each table and there
was maybe like 12 tables that’s it and
when I got to my table which was clearly
the misfit table like there was family
there was friends and then there’s this
Misfit table of like couple bridesmaids
couple of you know just not thought
about Peeps and when I looked at the
name of the table
I was so
pissed she had named the table
Amistad and then put me at
it are you kidding kid me are you
kidding me and like the photographer
came over and was just like with this
camera and I was just looking at I’m
like I was like don’t take my picture
don’t take my picture in front of this
monstrosity please and everybody was
like oh my God and I can’t believe that
and so I played a cool for the rest of
the wedding me my energy I’m not about
to ruin someone else’s wedding the day
that they’re going to remember for for
the rest of their lives for a possible
misunderstanding you know what I mean
this is 20 year
friendship and so I was like let’s just
get through this night an let’s just get
through this night and so then time went
on and I’m like um so you didn’t see
anything wrong with that and she was
just like no and I looked up all these
different boats do you know how many
famous boats there are there’s plenty to
choose from but here in Connecticut we
have the replica of the Amistad on the
ports of New Haven County and so she was
just like oh it’s just such a you know
special boat I’m like she’s like it’s
just such an iconic boat I’m like oh my
God you how many people did this go
through before this was like decided
upon like
nobody nobody questioned that
nobody questioned putting the only black
woman at the Amistad table so you’re
telling me that’s crazy and so she’s
just like oh well you know I picked the
names and Sean just put the people there
and I’m like okay and she never
apologized she said nothing about it it
was done and none of my friends stood up
for me big surprise but none of my
friends stood up for me nothing but they
all thought it was wrong everybody knew
it was wrong and so here I am by myself
having to fight the system and being the
angry black woman you know really tough
so after 20 years
sometimes you got to let go that that
was the straw that was the boundary for
me if you can’t even like acknowledge
the fact that this was inappropriate
then
we we ain’t it you and I we ain’t
it imagine being a black
woman whose white best friend of 20
years Waits until the biggest day of her
life her wedding day at which you’re her
bridesmaid she chooses that day to call
you a raggedy
enslaved n
I’d have to [ __ ] her
up I’m sorry I’d have to put the paws on
her I would have to put the paws on
her that
UL they would have to call the
ambulance to wait 20 years mind you like
she said white family well too they got
money they didn’t flaunt it heavy on
well to do they got money they didn’t
flaunt it but they got money they’re
well to do and I’m doing heavy on well
to do because them people knew better
them people knew better and I saw people
in the comments talking about oh well
aastad in Spanish means friendship [ __ ]
miss me with that [ __ ] miss me with that
[ __ ] they are in Connecticut everybody
down in Connecticut know what the [ __ ]
the armastad is first of all we all know
what the armastad is okay we all know
what the we all seen the damn
movie we all seen the damn movie we know
what the [ __ ] we talking about we
talking about aastad don’t [ __ ] play
my face I’ve been your friend for 20
years and here I am the only black
women’s during black women’s what about
your friend
month I’m the only black women’s down to
your
wedding and you didn’t have you didn’t
even have the decency to have me at the
bridesmaid
table how are you well to do but you
didn’t have a clearly clearly a
bridesmaid table you just sprinkled a
couple R mides apparently maybe those
are just the bridesmaides she a give a
[ __ ]
about but you put me at the slavery
table the slavery table you put me at
the slavery table down to your
wedding and then when I present my
grievances to you you don’t
apologize friendship of 20 years that
girl been calling that girl friendship
of 20 years
I’m willing to bet my best wig matter of
fact I’m willing to bet this wig I got
on right now okay the way this wig the
last month been holding me
down okay you see it some of y’all been
asking where I get my hair from you guys
know I used to sell hair so this is all
the leftover hair that I’ve had
literally but y’all see this
wig y’all see it okay I’m willing to bet
this wig that her white best friend was
always treating her like a
[ __ ] she was always treating you like a
niggaer the wedding wasn’t the first
time you just wasn’t paying attention
you just didn’t see the red flags you
saw the red flags and thought it was Six
Flags and wanted to join a ride because
you don’t only black women’s
around sometimes I have to think about
that too and no shade to the black girl
I’m pretty sure being the only black
girl around was tough but I feel like
sometimes a lot of the black women who
are always in these situations where
they’re the only black women they do
things to try to make the whites feel
comfortable because they they don’t want
to feel uncomfortable when they’re
around the whites as well okay so it’s
given she was always treating me like a
[ __ ] you were always a [ __ ] to her this
ain’t nothing
new okay but yeah I would have to put
the Paw on her I don’t care about
ruining nobody day I get down to your
wedding and you put me at the slavery
table baby I’mma do you like count I’mma
chop off your foot at your wedding
whoa you not getting married boo well we
had the reception so you well you not
having your last dance okay ain’t GNA be
no I hope you
D I hope you you know white people love
playing that song at their wedding I
hope you
still the ocean I hope CL one
opens and when you get the sit around
dance [ __ ] you won’t be Dancing Tonight
I’mma chop off your [ __ ]
foot you put me at the slavery table
[ __ ] you losing 10 toes tonight 10 toes
okay 10 toes [ __ ] ain’t nobody dancing
you not
dancing okay all right black women’s we
can’t be when somebody does some racist
[ __ ] like that we not we not we not oh
well I’m not gonna no I’m ruining your
deck I’m ruining your debt your
life I’m coming for blood [ __ ] okay I’m
coming for
blood you not dancing T
night ain’t going to be no I hope you
no
[ __ ] you will not have you will not be
having a dance with your father tonight
[ __ ] that all
right let me know your thoughts on this
video let me know your thoughts on
friendships what are some things that
you guys
feel um ruin friendships I would love to
know your thoughts about that in the
comment section uh all right y’all I’ll
see you guys in the next one love you
guys take
care Diamond my and Crystal CST a magic
with these HS watch them disappear
uh-huh we going to rain drop my ear if
you going to a drop let’s get it
clear BBS I just turn the water on big
old never
saw these [ __ ] chasing me like water